I joined this forum specifically because I need to talk to someone just to understand what I'm going through.
I had a day surgery procedure, with general anaesthetic, on Friday.
Before I left for the hospital that morning, I had pretty much convinced myself that I would never see the house again because I was terrified I wouldn't wake up from the anaesthetic.
Ten minutes before they took me to theatre I was crying my eyes out, feeling possibly the worst panic I've ever felt in my life. I didn't think I'd see my husband, my dogs, my house, anything ever again.
Next thing I knew, I was waking up in recovery. I had to spend the night in hospital but was allowed home mid-Saturday.
Since I've got home, though, nothing's felt right. Hard to describe, I just feel like things aren't "right" somehow, like I'm detached from everything. Disconnected. Like I don't fit.
I tried to go back to work this morning - big mistake. I sat down at my desk, switched on my computer, and just stared at the screen. I didn't know what the heck to do. Lines of program code stared back at me and I just didn't know what I was supposed to do with it. I burst into tears and had to go home.
I rang my GP surgery and got an appointment for late this morning. Saw a very understanding GP, and when I tried to tell her how I was feeling she didn't look at me like I was daft (like I'd expected) but instead told me I have something called de-realisation and that it is quite common after having an operation, and especially for someone like me who has underlying anxiety anyway.
Turns out I also have a chest infection, and she said with everything I'm going through she'd be surprised if I *did* feel normal.
But now I don't know what to do. It helps, to some extent, to know that what I'm feeling has a name, but I just want the feeling to stop, and I'm worried that it won't. The GP said it could take days or even weeks to feel normal again and that I need to walk before I can run.
I'm even feeling so anxious about this 'de-realisation' that I can't even bring myself to be worried about the procedure I had, and the upcoming results. I just feel like nothing will ever be normal again and it scares me so much.
I was so utterly convinced that I wouldn't wake up from the anaesthetic that I'm even beginning to wonder if I did in fact survive - maybe the disconnected feeling is because I'm in a coma or dead or something, I don't know.
When does this stop? When will it get normal again? I can't imagine ever doing something as simple as going shopping with my husband, or walking the dogs, because the thought just seems so alien to me.
I just don't know what to do. Even walking is strange, like I'm not quite sure where the ground is. I've never felt like this before and I'm just so scared.