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    Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    I'm a natural worrier. Even with things that is slim to none to be possible of happening. But when I start worrying about something.. I obsess over it, and I cannot stop without reassurance. Here is my current worry..
    I'm saving myself for marriage. However, me and my boyfriend do still mess around. We've never had intercourse, but we often will be naked and fooling around and sometimes he may ejaculate on me, but I'm always super careful to make sure it doesn't get 'down there'. Its usually just on my stomach.
    When I got my period this month, the first day it came it was extremely light and just had brown discharge. I panicked because everything on google said
    I was pregnant!! The next day, praise to God, my period came full force, just like normal. It was pretty heavy but not over the top. I was so relieved. The following day it was a little lighter, but still bleeding, then the fourth day, today, it's back to very very small amount of blood/brown discharge. I would assume it would be gone completely by tomorrow. Usually it lasts a full 6-7 days. It just seems so much shorter this time! It was only really heavy/normal for two of the days. Should I be worried?? I can't stop googling, and everything is telling me I could be pregnant. I'm trying to tell myself that that's crazy, because even though we fool around, we have NEVER had intercourse. Please reassure me..
    Thank you!

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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    It's highly unlikely.

    Google isn't a pregnancy test though. Surely if you were really concerned you'd get a test?

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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    I could tell you you're almost certainly not pregnant but if you have an anxiety condition then you probably won't believe me as you'll still have that doubt there... Why don't you do a pregnancy test to ease your mind and then you can just forget about it.

    You are probably only noticing differences in your period as you are looking for them and googling things like that definitely does not help, trust me!

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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    Quote Originally Posted by Joan1717 View Post
    my period came full force, just like normal... we have NEVER had intercourse.
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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    Get a home test kit and stop the worrying!
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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    Well, it's hard enough to get pregnant for many as it is. I am not a doctor, but if you've never had full-on intercourse, I am pretty sure that there's very, very, very little - probably impossible - of a chance you're pregnant.

    If you're nervous, which I understand you being since it is a fear that many women have, then just get a take home test. They're quite accurate and will put your mind at ease.

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    Re: Reassure me I'm not pregnant

    I get the pregnancy anxiety. I can say with pretty much certainty you're not pregnant.

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