I've just returned from a week in the Lake District. My arthritis was nowhere near as much a problem as I expected (although it was very bad for a couple of hours most mornings); we didn't do much walking, we visited lots of sites including a number of locations visited by the late, great Fred Dibnah. I met Fred's son. I was hoping to get photos of me and him together as my brother is a massive Fred Dibnah fan. Unfortunately the son was nothing like the father and he didn't even want to discuss Fred at all. My brother has schizophrenia and it would have been a nice surprise for him if this had worked out.
We also got the unbelievable opportunity to chat with the owner of Muncaster Castle, an eccentric old chap who I liked a great deal. His blunt, straightforward manner appealed to my aspie side. Most people fudge the truth or hold back. It's good to see some people still wear their hearts on their sleeves.
My relationship is "sort of" endangered. I have made huge strides against my anxiety and depression (some of the problems I have overcome were serious). Unfortunately, this has left a "vacuum" and my nervous energy has found a target in my girlfriend. I've become paranoid that I am depressing her and that she wants to split up. She has said this isn't the case. We are both grappling with problems and our relationship lost its spark, its sense of fun.
I don't really know how to "chill out" in life. I am constantly wound up and edgy. Even the increased strattera dose isn't helping much. However, we are now heading towards winter and that is definitely impacting me; I am also wary of my insane plan to visit America. The anxiety/depression sometimes seem as strong as they used to be. I don't think it's a relapse as such. I think I'm pushing myself outside my safety zone and the illness is pushing back.
Everything is still on, everything is good. But I am having so many new experiences, I am battling against so many issues, that it's overcoming my medication and my self-help. This is not an admission of defeat. Quite the opposite. I need to cope better with change and become more confident/positive about myself. I need to go to bed earlier, get more exercise and start eating better. These are things I can train myself to do. There are still nine weeks before I fly out to Georgia. It should be time to at least make a dent in the core of my anxiety.
There are nine weeks left before I fly to America. The insanity of this is starting to sink in. Two weeks is by far the longest I will have spent away from home. I am cut off completely should anything go wrong. Whatever happens, it will certainly be an adventure.