Hello everyone,
This is my first time posting. I've taken solace in this forum from afar for quite some time, and now it's time to take the plunge and create my own post since I am in a downward spiral.
This will be a little bit long, and I apologize for that, but I have a lot to say. I hope that some of you will make it to the end and offer some insight. Please read it all if you can stand it.
My name is Stephanie, I'm 38, a wife and mother, writer and photographer living in beautiful North Vancouver, Canada. I've struggled with OCD, depression, PTSD, anxiety and HA since I was young, about ten years of age was when these struggles began making themselves known. The HA was triggered, I believe, by my two uncles and one aunt dying of a rare and degenerative disease when I was in my pre-teen and teen years. Leading up to their deaths, I watched them become different people, unrecognizable - losing eyes, hair, the ability to speak, and more. They were some of my favourite people and I watched these vibrant, intelligent, loving family members get sick, become utterly incapacitated, and slip away.
My main phobia is and always has been cancer. I've had lots of therapy and been on pretty much any drug you can name. I was seen as a kid by an evil psychiatrist who treated me as a guinea pig, and when I questioned him and told my parents and his staff that he was an evil man, he called me delusional and had me thrown in a mental institution, where I was abused. Turns out this psychiatrist was actually molesting his male patients and he lost his license. Anyway.....
I have had bouts of severe depression and anxiety on and off throughout the years, and only recently have had the courage to re-enter therapy (took a lot of soul searching and letting go of trust issues, but I recently began seeing a therapist who specializes in HA - this is VERY new, and I need to give it time, but I am already developing trust in her), and just tonight I downloaded the CBT HA module course that is so highly recommended here. I am currently not taking medication.
The past three months have been all-out war in my head. I have never experienced such intense health anxiety, which was triggered when I found a small lump inside my cheek that occurred shortly after having viral bronchitis. I had two dentists (I sought a second opinion) tell me it was nothing, and both refused to give me a biopsy. I have had VelScope (light that screens for oral cancers and spots abnormal cells/tissue in the oral cavity) twice with normal results. I still don't trust it without a biopsy. I have also had a persistent white tongue, sore throat, cough, small lumps in neck, and metallic/salty taste in my mouth for about six weeks now.
In March I had viral bronchitis, and then it went away, and I felt fine. Then I had the cheek lump discovery and my health anxiety spun out of control, and I caught a cod that has been impossible to shake, and last week the bronchitis symptoms seemed to return. I guess they were there all along, as I haven't been well in nearly two months, but it seemed to get worse again. The worsening cough, the phlegm, etc. Cough is still there, though not as bad, throat is not as sore, and phlegm has reduced but the cough is still present as is the hoarseness and throat clearing. I have been in several ER's, no less than ten times in the past few months, not to mention countless appointments with my GP, walk-in doctors, my naturopathic doctor, and an ENT. All of them said "you're fine, just give it time," etc. I've had two clear chest X-rays, a clear chest CT, and a clear neck x-ray. My bloods have been normal aside from a slightly high CRP a month ago and an elevated lactate, both of which have since been re-tested and gone back to normal. Normal WBC last time it was tested a few weeks ago, as well as RBC and platelets, lymphs, Leuks, everything normal. Yet I keep getting sore throats, coughing up yellow phlegm on and off, etc, and the hoarseness and cough has been consistent for six weeks. Lymph nodes in neck are slightly swollen. I should add that about a month ago I quit smoking pot due to this heath scare (I was smoking every day), and that my diet was high in sugar and salt and junk food for years (I was using food to self-medicate and to escape) until I changed that at the same time and decided to eat healthy and try to take better care of my body. I fear that it's too late for that now though. Also, I do not smoke cigs, very rarely drink, and am a little overweight but not obese.
Anyway, this persistent cough and sore throat, that has lasted six weeks, as well as hoarseness, constant throat clearing, congestion and alternating blocked ears, combined with my other symptoms, has had me going in circles seeking appointment after appointment and opinion after opinion, feeling like I'm going crazy. Last week, I conducted some more research (I do that a lot, I know I shouldn't), I had an a-ha moment. Something that my GP, dentist, and ENT couldn't see and hadn't tested was my thyroid. I became convinced that it was thyroid cancer, based on my symptoms, and proceeded to demand an ultrasound. The doctor reluctantly complied, after trying to brush me off as just anxious. I insisted. The results came back today and lo and behold, I have "multiple nodules" on both sides of my thyroid.
The report is very vague except to say that the nodules are tiny and scattered, hypoechoic and all are less than 7 mm (which means less than 1 cm). I've read conflicting information about this. Some sites say that multiple nodules mean less chance of cancer, whereas others say it means more. Some say that the size is reassuring whereas others say size has nothing to do with it. The lack of detail in the report scares me so much - it tells me almost nothing. One thing it does say is that "none of the nodules have a sonographically suspicious appearance", but to me that is contradictory because they are hypoechoic and solid - how can that not be suspicious? It also does not list the characteristics that imply lack of suspicion - so I have no idea WHY they say they are not suspicious, nor do I know HOW MANY there are, only that there are multiple nodules. Additionally, it states the clinical follow up would be appropriate. Side note: can you tell I'm a journalist? I NEED information. I NEED answers. And the need for research is absolutely INGRAINED in me, which makes me very good at my job, but doesn't do me any favours in the HA department.
The doctor who delivered the results to me said I needed to get a thyroid blood test done, which I have done, and then he said when we have the results he will then refer me to an endocrinologist. I know I'm not supposed to seek reassurance and I am well aware that nobody here can diagnose me, but I have honestly never been so scared in my life. This time it might actually be something bad, and I'm terrified to leave my six year old daughter, who is very attached to me, without a mother. I'm also scared that I will have to halt my CBT and focus all my attention on cancer treatment. The very thought makes me sick.
Please, has anyone ever experienced thyroid nodules - and maybe even my other symptoms - that turned out to be nothing? I feel so helpless and hopeless right now. All I want to do is sleep. The fact that what I've feared almost my whole life (cancer) might be a reality is too much for me to bear right now. I'm worried that my mouth symptoms are also cancer that has somehow spread to the thyroid or vice versa, and that these mouth symptoms (dry mouth, slightly slurred S's in my speech, white tongue, strange taste, lump in cheek and skin tag on upper frenulum) are being ignored, thus making my prognosis worse.
I know that I have no control and all I can do is wait (the TORTURE of waiting - can I get a witness?!), but this is the only place I could think of to turn in the meantime. I pray that someone gets all the way through this insane, rambling, all-over-the-place post and can reach out to me.
Thank you for listening. I'm so happy to finally be an actual part of the forum. I've wanted to post for a long time, but didn't have the guts.