Re: Scared of mental breakdown
I too suffer from complex PTSD and have been going through my own period of grief since losing my best friend. I am here for you. Don't struggle alone. Feel free to PM me.
I am 2 years out now, but in the beginning I was barely functioning and holding things together. What helped me the most was going to grief counseling. I wish I had gotten myself into it sooner. I did individual and then attended traumatic grief group. The tendency is to bottle thing up and tell ourselves we should be over things by now, but it doesn't work that way, it only makes it worse. You have to talk and open up.
The other big helpers were medication and reading th book The Body Keeps the Score by Van Der Kolk. The best book out there on PTSD, IMHO.
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