Emotions

[clickaway]

How many here go through periods of crying, or at least wanting to cry because they are so frustrated with their condition and don't always have a shoulder to cry on?

Sometimes, these symptoms just get the better of you and just won't go away.

Chatting on here, as good as it us, can't release those tears. That can only be done by phone, or even better, by speaking to someone in person.

I'd be interested to hear from others who live alone how they cope.

Ray

[FAN]

well i personally save mine til bed time i get under my duvet and become all pathetic and maudlin about how bad my life is, always feel lots better afterwards

fan x

[sal]

Im a bit like Fan or if it gets me down during the day have a good cry and it sometimes makes me feel a little bit better.

Lots of Love Sal xxxxx

[bluebottle]

You guys don't have to be alone, your welcome to ring me day or night.

Regards,

Blue
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[FAN]

aaww blue that was a very kind thought

fan x

[Karen]

I live alone and only have contact with people online most of the time. I too often feel like I need to cry but the tears won't come.

Like Ray says we often need a shoulder to cry on but being alone don't have anyone with us. Talking on the phone isn't an option for me because I find talking so very difficult.


Karen



It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.

[bluebottle]

<b id="quote">quote:</b id="quote"><table border="0" id="quote"><tr id="quote"><td class="quote" id="quote">aaww blue that was a very kind thought

fan x

<div align="right">Originally posted by FAN - 05 March 2005 : 21:26:05</div id="right">
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I'm not a therapist Fan, I'm more likely to get pi**ed lol, but I hate it when people are unhappy. If sharing things with me helps then that is great. I'm not a natural talker though so don't expect me to chew your ear off, at least not until I get to know you.

Regards,

Blue
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[kate]

I don't live alone but I still don't like to offload my prob's on hubby and the kids. I only occasionally talk about how I'm feeling and thats only on msn not person to person.

I still cry my tears in private as well.

Love Kate x

[bluebottle]

You need to talk to your partner Kate, something like that can't be faced alone if you aren't on your own. It must be a huge strain to not be able to share your pain with the one you love.

Regards,

Blue
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[kate]

Hi Blue,

He and I have been going through this for the past 20 odd years on and off.

It has affected us all as a family, as it has everyone else here that suffers. BUT, I still can't tell him how I'm feeling on a day to day basis and he never asks. He understands as little now as he did 20 years ago, so I just keep it to myself. Yes, very stressful, but I find it impossible to discuss it with him.

Kate x