omg ive been offered a job though not sure i can do it

[mummy4]

in need of some extra cash and went for interview on sat was showed round the hotel (its for housekeeping position) got to top floor and all of a sudden i had a really horrible dizzy moment (nothing i havent had before :()
anyway was offered the job and i can start this saturday! its working every saturday and sunday 8am-2pm. im just not sure i can do it as this anxiety is ruining my life :( suffered on and off (mainly on) since i was 17 im now 26. i have 4 kids age 7 4 2 and 4 months and will miss them dealry too. am just thinking 'omg what if i have a massive anxiety attack that turns to panic and i just want to run away' grrrr im so frustrated i dont know what to do :(

[fillyjonk]

hi there,

it's great you were offered the job. sounds like the actual decision of deciding whether to go for it or not is the hardest bit. what if you said 'i'll just give it a go' - that way you take a lot of pressure off yourself in the first place and then it almost doesn't matter if it didn't work out - although i'm sure it would!

good luck, Fillyjonk

[anx mum]

Hi kelly i think ur b fine hun. Im starting my job monday abit nervous too as im getting panic attacks still. I know its hard face the fear. Bev

[diane07]

Well done you on getting through the interview, why not give it a go and see if you like it, you may love it, its certainly worth a try since you've got this far.

best wishes

di xx

[maddie]

The job can't be worse than plucking up the courage to go for the interview. The hours mean you can think to yourself "it's only till lunchtime" and you will still have plenty of time with the kids each day too. I think you've done really well. Good luck. Hope you enjoy it!

[eternally optimistic]

WELL DONE, THAT'S GREAT NEWS.

REGARDLESS OF WHAT YOU DECIDE TO DO, YOU GOT THROUGH THIS SITUATION (which is often the worse bit) AND YOU CAN TAKE ON THIS CHALLENGE.

WHATEVER YOU DECIDE TO DO, DONT HAVE A DOWNER ON YOURSELF.

Good luck.

[mau]

Congratulations and well done to you for managing to go for and get through the interview process.

I should imagine starting the job won't be nearly as stressful.

[lorac]

Hi

Well done for going for the job and congratulations for getting it. Give it a go, you may really like it and if you don't then you can leave. Unless you try you will never know.

Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

Carol

[mummy4]

thanks so much it means a lot to read your replys.
i know what your all saying and i know you are all right, its just if it were say 2 hours away from home dont think i would feel so bad but as its 6 hours at a time im panicking just thinking about it :(

[mummy4]

i really dont think i can go for the job im panicky and dizzy just thinking about it i will be a wreck in the morning thing is i cant win as if i dont go i will feel a failure :( im sick and fed up with feeling like this i want to scream :(