Hello,
My husband is depressed and I believe he has major depressive disorder. The depression originates from anxiety (which I completely understand because I have panic disorder) but then turns into a deep depression. I don't know how to get him out of it. He is upset because a lot of things did not go his way and he is resentful towards people. He states he hates people because they are all out to get him and are only bothering with him to benefit themselves. He is a musician and has been led on by other musicians and they have failed him by the band not being successful. He also cannot hold down a job because he is either "too slow" or cannot relate to people or cannot work under pressure. He also gets ridiculed by other people because he cannot perform the way they think he should because of his anxiety and depression. I have bipolar mania which once the manic episode is over leads to a mild form of depression where I want to sleep all the time and feel motivated not to do anything. It is very mild. What he is going through is scaring me because he will not pull out of it and is very resentful towards people and very angry. Can you please explain depression and how to help someone get out of it. I feel horrible because I never experienced SEVERE depression so I cannot help him. The only thing I can do is try to prevent anxiety (which I am very experienced at having) to try to prevent his depression from kicking in. Thanks