Re: virgin
I would agree mid-30s is not necessarily late in the game. I was a virgin at 30 when I met Mrs F, she had been with MANY partners so we were polar opposites. There were many reasons I had remained a virgin, mainly a fear of commitment combined with fear of rejection if they discovered my anxiety problems. Add to this that I got drunk all the time and I was a non-starter when it came to sex.
I always think it's risky to try and categorise people. We are all unique and sex is just one dimension of who we are. Also being 52 now, I find I'm more interested in gardening
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'It was a wedding ring, destined to be found in a cheap hotel, lost in a kitchen sink, or thrown in a wishing well' - Marillion, Clutching at Straws, 1987