Pulisa, I've cancelled my future appointments.
It was someone private through a friend of a friend and I was keen, because of no contract and regular visits, but on the downside, it leaves the sessions wide open for abuse with the time factor and that is not a good thing.
An hour can be exhausting emotionally, but yesterday was just ridiculous.
I know how to 'Tap' and it can be a useful tool when you feel out of control or stressed and after 3 years of therapy, there is only so many times you can go over past events.
So, today I felt angry that I let myself be therapeed, (not a real word), for so long.
I should have said, "That's enough now, I can't take anymore". But I didn't and I feel a bit pathetic that I did not speak up for myself. And no, I don't want more therapy for not be able to say NO!
I actually took on this therapist so that it would help me with my confidence with my driving and monophobia. (That's being afraid of being on your own).
After 4 hours of therapy in two sessions, I realised very quickly that this situation was not going to work for me. And that experience has learned me a lesson and made me more confident now to say, "not for me!".
Now, despite all of that, I went out all day today, even though my mobile phone had packed up and died on me, which is definitely one of my safety tools.
I was determined not going to be beaten and become a victim and I am pleased to say that I was perfectly fine. Even had lunch without wriggling in my seat, hot flushing and stayed perfectly calm. Using my tools from Mindfulness, like looking around the room, out of the window, being aware of what I was eating and actually enjoying it.
I am also pleased to say that my stomach has calmed down massively.
Changing my diet for healthy stuff, has now allowed me to have a few naughty things.
I am very happy about this, because as I suffer from health anxiety, an ulcer did cross my mind. I've also found out since that there has been a tummy bug going around.
Whatever the cause, it is never a bad idea to eat healthier.
My tip for today is wringing your hands.
You may even do this already or unknowingly. Maybe at an interview, when you are cold or waiting in a queue.
It is a calming action and your body may do it voluntarily, but the centre of your palms is a calming centre.
I'm off tomorrow to hopefully get a new phone. Not my idea of bliss at all.
Waiting in a queue for ages, then fighting off an expensive piece of electronic equipment they want to try and sell me, being bamboozled with technology and probably being laughed at when ask them what the difference is between 3G and 4G.
Let alone ICloud. What happened to just making a call and receiving a call?
So, until next time...........