Originally Posted by
texasuk
I've just joined here myself. I've recently had a bad anxiety and depression time, and have just started on Citalopram (first day today...bit hyper right now) but have been reading all around the forum to see what other people are struggling with, and this is one of mine even when I'm not clincally depressed.
I had to take the train every morning for an hour and a half into London for 4 years, every rush hour morning and evening, and every day was a nightmare of fear for having to use the loo. Recently trains have toilets pretty much all the time, but back in my day (only about 7 years ago) there would frequently be no toilet, or one that didn't work, or carriges that were so crowded I had to stand for the whole journey, while crushed between people.
I believe this experience contributed quite heavily to my phobia, as I would consistently be dying for the loo the whole journey, and never confident that I could hold it in. I have cried silently with the fear while standing there.
These days I can't even take the train, even though they have much better facilities, I have even turned down employment that might have helped my career just because of this problem.
I have bought a VW camper van that I now use all the time, as I now have a good excuse to drive around with a toilet always available. I also find that I can go places knowing that I have a loo not too far away, or at least within walking distance.
But I'm not really happy with the situation. It costs a bloody fortune in petrol and isn't really what I want to do.