Can posters, especially those who are posting a lot about a variety of fears please confine their posts to one thread, and likewise if you are posting about the same fear it is helpful if it is contained on the one thread.
This helps others to build up a clear picture of what is happening and makes it easier to offer suitable advice.
You may not see the pattern but usually it is there, especially if you are posting frequently about different things.
Due to technical problems it is proving difficult to merge posts so for the moment any posts that we feel should be on a previous thread will be closed, allowing you the opportunity to re-post on your existing thread.
Your co-operation with this would be greatly appreciated.
Elen