mirry
10-05-06, 16:13
HI EVERYONE !
I have been attending my cbt and something came up about myself that i didnt know.
I had to drive my cbt car and whilst approaching the car i notised a man watching us getting into the car together which made me feel uncomfortable. When i had to start the engine i checked to see if the man was still watching (which he wasnt) so i drove out of the car park.
Then a car came around me quite fast and i felt myself go HOT.
I told my therapist how i felt and he broke it all down for me like this;
WHEN SOMEONE IS WATCHING YOU HOW DO YOU FEEL ?
uncomfortable/embarressed.
WHY DO YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ?
i dont know.
WHAT DO YOU THINK THEY ARE THINKING ?
look how shes driving.
WHAT WILL YOU BE THINKING ?
i might make a mistake.
WHAT WILL THEY THINK IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE ?
she cant do it, she cant drive.
IF THEY THINK YOU CANT DO IT, HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL ?
upset, embarrased ,STUPID.
He said theres such a anxiety called performance anxiety, which i seem to have..its usually caused because of childhood experiences.
mirryx
I have been attending my cbt and something came up about myself that i didnt know.
I had to drive my cbt car and whilst approaching the car i notised a man watching us getting into the car together which made me feel uncomfortable. When i had to start the engine i checked to see if the man was still watching (which he wasnt) so i drove out of the car park.
Then a car came around me quite fast and i felt myself go HOT.
I told my therapist how i felt and he broke it all down for me like this;
WHEN SOMEONE IS WATCHING YOU HOW DO YOU FEEL ?
uncomfortable/embarressed.
WHY DO YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ?
i dont know.
WHAT DO YOU THINK THEY ARE THINKING ?
look how shes driving.
WHAT WILL YOU BE THINKING ?
i might make a mistake.
WHAT WILL THEY THINK IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE ?
she cant do it, she cant drive.
IF THEY THINK YOU CANT DO IT, HOW DOES THAT MAKE YOU FEEL ?
upset, embarrased ,STUPID.
He said theres such a anxiety called performance anxiety, which i seem to have..its usually caused because of childhood experiences.
mirryx