Glitterbugs
26-09-11, 14:45
Hey all,
I am struggling with a new relationship following a terrible and abusive marriage. All was good and we have been living together for a while but one (fairly big!) blip a couple of weeks ago has sent me spiraling into anxiety,insecurity, negativity about the relationship and just feel flat.
He says he loves me and we will get through this but I am finding it hard to beleive him and almost waiting for the worst to happen. I seem unable to focus on the positive and am blowing all negative things way out of proportion.
I hate this feeling...started anti depressents this week and am seeking couselling as I know this all stems from my past - ie the bad marriage.
Any words of support would help as I feel dreadful right now. xxx
I am struggling with a new relationship following a terrible and abusive marriage. All was good and we have been living together for a while but one (fairly big!) blip a couple of weeks ago has sent me spiraling into anxiety,insecurity, negativity about the relationship and just feel flat.
He says he loves me and we will get through this but I am finding it hard to beleive him and almost waiting for the worst to happen. I seem unable to focus on the positive and am blowing all negative things way out of proportion.
I hate this feeling...started anti depressents this week and am seeking couselling as I know this all stems from my past - ie the bad marriage.
Any words of support would help as I feel dreadful right now. xxx