Purple Fish
16-11-11, 11:40
Hey all,
I'm after some advice really. I have kept on top of my anxiety for so long now but it's really being tested at the moment!
I've had xmas day planned for months now. My mum, dad, godparents and my godmum's brother are coming for dinner. I have asked my brother if he is coming round later, as he usually does because he has to visit his in-laws that day too. He has just moved from a flat to a house with his wife and has now asked us to go round his xmas evening. I have told him we have company but he seems to think we can all go round still.
We're not going to be eating til late afternoon and we don't want to go.
My mum obviously does so she is now torn between us both!
The tension is building up big time and my mum as always is trying to control the situation. It doesn't help that my brother is the favourite anyway and they always do things together!
Anxiety level at the mo is pretty high!!
:shrug:
I'm after some advice really. I have kept on top of my anxiety for so long now but it's really being tested at the moment!
I've had xmas day planned for months now. My mum, dad, godparents and my godmum's brother are coming for dinner. I have asked my brother if he is coming round later, as he usually does because he has to visit his in-laws that day too. He has just moved from a flat to a house with his wife and has now asked us to go round his xmas evening. I have told him we have company but he seems to think we can all go round still.
We're not going to be eating til late afternoon and we don't want to go.
My mum obviously does so she is now torn between us both!
The tension is building up big time and my mum as always is trying to control the situation. It doesn't help that my brother is the favourite anyway and they always do things together!
Anxiety level at the mo is pretty high!!
:shrug: