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I text him but he hasn't text back and not answering his mobile phone and I'm just completely freaking out :( I don't want to annoying him by keeping on texting and ringing him but I really want an answer :(
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 18:40
Well I am sure he will call you when he gets your messages.
Why are you so worried? People miss calls on their phones all the time.
not used to him being like this :/ just worried he's ignoring me or maybe something happened to him. Doesn't help that we had an argument the other night either :/ My previous boyfriend used to ignore my calls on purpose :(
I wouldnt worry- Bet he just genuinly hasnt heard phone gone off- maybe he has it on silent mode.
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 18:48
Well give him time to reply and when he does don't give him a hard time for not answering cos that could make things worse between you.
Go and watch some TV and distract yourself from worrying as there is nothing you can do for now.
mallan82450
03-01-12, 18:51
I always vet my calls, so I dont see the harm in it. My bf tells me off for doing it all the time but I just tell him it's because I don't want to speak to anyone. It doesn't mean I don't like them/him it's just I can't be bothered to talk or I'm driving.
I've text him so much i'm not really scared that he's going to leave me for being generally annoying :( I'm trying to watch a DVD but it isn't really taking my mind off anything
mallan82450
03-01-12, 18:56
You definitely need to stop - what is it that your so worried about?
lots of things, that hes hurt or dead, that he doesn't want to be with me any more, that he's ignoring me :( that he's going to leave me for texting him
I'm sure he is fine, he's either busy or has his phone off. Constantly sending loads of texts probably is going to annoy him though !
that's whats really worrying me now I sent him 5 in an hour :( I'm really scared he's going to leave me :(:(:(
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 19:33
Well don't send anymore to him and let him contact you.
I do sense some low self-esteem issues here though - would that be right?
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 19:46
Because most of us would not worry about a boyfriend leaving us just because we sent a few texts as we would feel secure in the relationship but I sense that you automatically think he will leave you which is a typical reaction with someone with low self-esteem.
If you disagree please say so. It was just my opnion.
I was just wondering why you thought it that's all. Maybe it is something like that :/ he's left me for much less in the past :(
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 20:35
Well as I said above that is why I thought it.
Have you heard from him yet?
no, I know he doesn't usually get back till one but I don't know how much more waiting I can take eps if he comes back and leaves me :(
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 20:51
why would he leave you? Even if he does then he wasn't the right man for you to be honest.
Theres no one else out there who would be good for me he's the only one I felt was right for me :/ I just thought he might leave me for being clingy :(
i find men prefer it if you give them the cold shoulder:winks:
Im sure everything is fine, if you stopped contacting him maybe he might think huh? and text more
I stopped texting him but he still hasn't text me back at all :(
hi any news yet? do you live together? what time does he usually get home
still haven't heard anything nothing since 6 :( yesterday he said he'd get back around 1am so I'm just waiting for that time...and the if he's not back I guess I'll have to try and contact him again?
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 23:43
Is he at work till 1am?
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 23:43
oh and what did he say at 6?
nuh he doesn't work he's at the pub! Not much he said he loves me and since then nothing :/ he told me he'd let me know when he got to the pub so not even sure he got there!
nomorepanic
03-01-12, 23:56
lol he is at the pub till 1am and doesn't work - nice life lol
Have you tried calling at all?
I tried calling him a few times around 7-8pm but I don't want to annoy him or anything. only an hour now and he should be home...
nomorepanic
04-01-12, 00:12
yeah leave it - go to bed and forget about it for now ok?
he could be drunk if he has been in the pub for 6 hours
he goes there to play poker so...could be a couple of ££ short too XD I doubt he's drunk anyway he too scared to get drunk now since he ended up in hospital the last time :/
hope he rolls in at a decet time, im going to bed now ill check your post tomorrow to see how you are, night x
its ok he just got back...he's not drunk either so that's ok. He's not annoyed about the text messages either, he left his phone in the car -___- panic over
Hi.
glad all was ok but are you receiving help counessling/cbt of any kind? as the panic may be over now but if it happens again the same scenario of panic will happen x
I did CBT and it didn't really help me :/ I know my anxiety is really bad :( but nothing seems to help me and my doctor will only give me tablets but I have a phobia of taking them :(
I know what you mean. I have a phobia of meds to. I think you need to go back to the GP and speak to them about the anxiety- as you cant go on like this. tell them your worries about my meds and see what they suggest
they already know but they just say I can get over it :(
nomorepanic
04-01-12, 19:46
What happened at the CBT specifically?
They just taught me techniques but It hasn't really helped me
nomorepanic
04-01-12, 20:02
The thing with CBT is that you have to work at it and keep doing things over and over until it becomes 2nd nature. It is not easy to do but can make a huge difference once you grasp it
I was doing cbt for about 6 months and it still didn't really click :(
ugh, here we go again. Not answering his phone again. This is happening all too often now :( planning to meet at half 8? no answers to calls :/ great I don't know how much more of this I can take I'm sat here in tears
He was planning to meet you at half 8? Where?
Littlehelper123
08-01-12, 22:32
Hun, give him some space! dont keep texting and ringing him or he'll think something is wrong. It could be something as simple that his battery died or he cant hear it. He is probably fine and probs just busy x
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