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CantonaKing
08-02-12, 23:24
Hi,
I was getting out of my car earlier this evening and the belt buckle on my coat hit me under my eye, to the left.
A little bump has come up, it's a bit red, but it looks more like a spot.
What I should mention is I have Body Dysmorphic Disorder and I am terrified at the way it looks.
I'm also supposed to be going away with my girlfriend on
Friday and am terrified it won't have disappeared by then.
This kind of thing makes me extremely self-conscious.
I could try concealer, which I've done before, but then I'm worried everyone will notice that.
I'm shitting myself that my romantic weekend away together will now be ruined and she'll ditch me.
Do I put some ice on it? Or will that make it go worse?
Thank you...

Veronica H
08-02-12, 23:33
Ouch! yes, put some ice on it. Don't worry it will be fine. Have a great weekend. Vx

CantonaKing
08-02-12, 23:34
Thank you.
But how long will it take to go down?
I'm worried she'll go off me if it looks bad?

Veronica H
09-02-12, 00:01
:shrug:Can't really answer that question. It is more important for you to challenge your thinking on this anxiety buddy. :bighug1:xV

CantonaKing
09-02-12, 00:22
Thank you.
Do you think the ice will make it worse.
I showed my mum and she said she can't see anything...