Joe C
28-03-12, 20:08
hi guys, how is everyone on this fine evening? So Ive met a beautiful girlfriend and Im really happy.
The problem is this, I have told her a little lie, nothing big but it was silly. It was something she would've never found out about. Due to my anxiety and worrying I've come clean and shes completely fine about it.
The problem is due to my OCD I keep thinking "oh I haven't really come clean to her, what if she doesn't actually realise I was lying" So I then casually talked to her over text about coming clean so I had some proof on my phone that I could read.
Now I have that evidence on my phone that she knows I was lying and I've come clean, my brain keeps telling me she might of misunderstood the texts and I feel like I need reassurance from her, but I dont want her to become pestered so I dont want to bring it up again!
Any suggestions? God I hate OCD!
PS sorry if Ive rambled
Joe
The problem is this, I have told her a little lie, nothing big but it was silly. It was something she would've never found out about. Due to my anxiety and worrying I've come clean and shes completely fine about it.
The problem is due to my OCD I keep thinking "oh I haven't really come clean to her, what if she doesn't actually realise I was lying" So I then casually talked to her over text about coming clean so I had some proof on my phone that I could read.
Now I have that evidence on my phone that she knows I was lying and I've come clean, my brain keeps telling me she might of misunderstood the texts and I feel like I need reassurance from her, but I dont want her to become pestered so I dont want to bring it up again!
Any suggestions? God I hate OCD!
PS sorry if Ive rambled
Joe