Northy
02-06-12, 18:26
Hi forum,
I've started to get negative thoughts about my girlfriend. I then got intrusive thoughts, which have developed into panic attacks.
I realise i get aprehensive around her and that's causing the panic.
So why am i getting the negative thoughts? I want space and some relief, we live in a small flat and spend all our time with each other, she is now working but for 5 month she wasn't and relied on me.
I was smoothered and feel now that the damage is done, can we recover the reletionship? Or do i have old emotions that I havn't delt with, that may cause me to feeling like this?
My phychologist thinks it's old unresolved stuff. Emerging in the present.
I'm interested to here other people recovery stories and advice.
Please help?
I've started to get negative thoughts about my girlfriend. I then got intrusive thoughts, which have developed into panic attacks.
I realise i get aprehensive around her and that's causing the panic.
So why am i getting the negative thoughts? I want space and some relief, we live in a small flat and spend all our time with each other, she is now working but for 5 month she wasn't and relied on me.
I was smoothered and feel now that the damage is done, can we recover the reletionship? Or do i have old emotions that I havn't delt with, that may cause me to feeling like this?
My phychologist thinks it's old unresolved stuff. Emerging in the present.
I'm interested to here other people recovery stories and advice.
Please help?