Post then panic about replies???

[gungelad]

Does anyone else ever post things then panic about what they have posted? Worry about how their message will be interpreted or judged? It is quite strange that I find myself plucking up the courage to post then if you get no replies I panic nobody wants to talk to me. It is almost a vicious circle.

I find the same though with texting. If a message means something to me I phone watch until I get the reply. Anyone else suffer like this?

[nantia]

Yes. Also I just posted a huge post here and I'm pretty sure nobody will spend so much time to read it. :P
On the other hand there are reason why people might not reply. They might not be online, haven't noticed your message or even forgot to reply. It just happens. I don't think people would avoid talking to you though. ;)

[Hellington Boots]

I am exactly the same, it's just another of my insecurities!

The wonderful thing about this site is that most people are very supportive!


Post away, people are interested in you!


xxx

[RichUK]

Absolutely, which is why (I take the coward's route(?)) I no longer post - save for this occasion.

I echo the sentiments above - people on this site are (evidently) supportive.

I can confirm that Nantia's post is as huge as she suggests having just read it in its entirety :P

I am now considering deleting this post :doh:

[nantia]

Hahha, thank you. Although I feel kinda weird now. :blush:

[RichUK]

Hahha, thank you. Although I feel kinda weird now. :blush:

Well then I apologise. It certainly wasn't criticism. I just thought I'd let you know that people (including myself) are taking the time to read posts, regardless of length.

(This is evidence for why I shouldn't post :P)

[nantia]

No, no I don't mean it that way either! :P I mean it's the first time that actually people take time to read what I wrote. Thank you very much! :)

[Hellington Boots]

It's great that we can all post whatever we need to get off our chest - this is what this site is for, support and honesty! It's fantastic. :-)

xxx

[nantia]

100% agree :D

[bluesparkle]

hi
yes i think alot of us are like that.. i certainly am and i have been a member here for a long time.
its just part of our anxiety...
and one thing IS for sure you will never be judged here, everyone understands.
rach
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