natalier
18-06-12, 16:25
I have recently started dating this guy (been with him over a month now). I live about 15 min drive away from his house. He has been to mine plenty of times but I just can't make myself go to his. I have tried driving to his twice but both times I had to turn around because I feel horrible, feel like I will go crazy, feel panicky and just horrible. I don't want to loose him as previous relationships have been bad and he seems like a genually nice guy. He does understand but for how long... I can't keep not going to his house. He has no experience with anxiety or panic attacks so doesn't really understand what it is like to suffer one.
Basically, I just want to know any tips you can give me? I want to be able to do it! I used to be able to go places but it keeps getting worse, and atm I am in a bad spell so yeah finding it hard. I think it is because it is a way I never go and so most of the 15 mins is in unknown place. He said he would come over and then I could follow him to his place but I don't know if that will help as I will still feel panicky.
Anyone else have this problem?
Thank you
Basically, I just want to know any tips you can give me? I want to be able to do it! I used to be able to go places but it keeps getting worse, and atm I am in a bad spell so yeah finding it hard. I think it is because it is a way I never go and so most of the 15 mins is in unknown place. He said he would come over and then I could follow him to his place but I don't know if that will help as I will still feel panicky.
Anyone else have this problem?
Thank you