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for no real reason other than I'm scared I don't love him and should leave him. I'm scared when he talks to me and scared when he touches me. I don't know what to do!
ren
Has he ever done anything to make you feel scared?
"Why does life turn you upside down and inside out then back round again"
Never. He's been really wonderful to me.
Are you having a bad time with anxiety ect in general at the moment? Because this often brings on for me fears that i dont normally have when im ok.
Could you not go somewhere to have a break from your partner till you feel a bit better, and explain it to him?
"Why does life turn you upside down and inside out then back round again"
Hi Ren,
I went through a stage like that with my hubby a couple of months ago. I posted about it if you want to read it in the forum.
Hope this helps
Mandy
xx
marie ross
19-07-06, 17:35
Hi Ren,
I too have had this with my wonderful partner of 12 years.
I was'nt that i was scared of him, i did'nt want him to touch me and i could'nt even be in the same room as him. This went on for a month and now i realise that it was me and my anxiety making myself distant from him. I would'nt want him to leave me and it was just a bad stage i was going through, but its got a lot better.
Do you live together, is there somewhere you could go to have a good think about what you really want??
Take care.
Marie XX
thanks for the replies. I've been home to my parents for a night but all my NHS support is at home so I need to be living with my partner. I know I care for him but right now all my problems are coming from my relationship fears. Last night I was scared of being in the same bed with him, which hurt me as well as him.
ren
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