Munchlet
12-08-12, 22:36
Feeling very low tonight, my husband received a phone call to say that his boss has died suddenly whilst on holiday with his family.
He was only in his forties and had a family with two children and he had a massive heart attack and just died. He was a lovely man, and really took care of himself, no health problems, not overweight, non smoker etc.
I don't know it just really puts things into perspective, I spend most of my life worrying about things I have no control over and then something like this happens and it has really started me thinking, what is the point?
I mean he had no health concerns took good care of himself and then just drops down dead whereas I spend my entire life worrying I've got some sort of cancer and yet these things can just happen at any point and it's not something we can ever control.
I just felt the need to post I'm hoping I can use this as a reminder that you really do just need to enjoy each day and live life to the full as none of us know what lies ahead.
I doubt it will make any difference just makes me angry that I waste so much of my life worrying about stuff I can't do anything about, :weep:
He was only in his forties and had a family with two children and he had a massive heart attack and just died. He was a lovely man, and really took care of himself, no health problems, not overweight, non smoker etc.
I don't know it just really puts things into perspective, I spend most of my life worrying about things I have no control over and then something like this happens and it has really started me thinking, what is the point?
I mean he had no health concerns took good care of himself and then just drops down dead whereas I spend my entire life worrying I've got some sort of cancer and yet these things can just happen at any point and it's not something we can ever control.
I just felt the need to post I'm hoping I can use this as a reminder that you really do just need to enjoy each day and live life to the full as none of us know what lies ahead.
I doubt it will make any difference just makes me angry that I waste so much of my life worrying about stuff I can't do anything about, :weep: