xtremx
15-10-12, 20:05
Right I am not a bad person or a Cruel father but I find myself in a vicious circle.
With my panic attacks when I get them as with most off us the symptoms we get scare the life out of us and then we try to avoid the what triggers them.
One of my triggers at the moment is the thought of having a panic attack and ending up spending the night in a&e as I have done twice with concerns of having a heart attack and losing my family.
But this is having a very bad effect on my temper I seem to lose it at the slightest thing mainly with my kids (I would never hurt them) but I do swear at them alot using the F bomb constantly as in shut the F up and be bloody F ing quite and stuff like that as for some reason it seem to take my mind away from my feelings.
But this is not good as my daughter is only 3 1/2 and my son 12 and my temper out bursts are daily sometimes every hour as I cannot stand the noise and stuff.
I really try not to but I start to feel my chest ache and my jaw and think that bad things are about to happen so I get into a outburst every night I think things must change but they never.
I have told my doctor and mental health worker about this and they just said it is something i just have to control but i find it damn hard.
I try to shut off from it all but that never works it just always the thought that the anxiety that a growing family is having on me is that i am going to have a major attack anf end up with the lights flashing on the way to a&e (and as we most know it is a scary place when you are all alone).
But when my anxiety symptoms start up it is always chest pain and jaw pain, But my doctor says it is just anxiety.
As I said Please Don't Judge Me Too Hard I really do try to stay calm
With my panic attacks when I get them as with most off us the symptoms we get scare the life out of us and then we try to avoid the what triggers them.
One of my triggers at the moment is the thought of having a panic attack and ending up spending the night in a&e as I have done twice with concerns of having a heart attack and losing my family.
But this is having a very bad effect on my temper I seem to lose it at the slightest thing mainly with my kids (I would never hurt them) but I do swear at them alot using the F bomb constantly as in shut the F up and be bloody F ing quite and stuff like that as for some reason it seem to take my mind away from my feelings.
But this is not good as my daughter is only 3 1/2 and my son 12 and my temper out bursts are daily sometimes every hour as I cannot stand the noise and stuff.
I really try not to but I start to feel my chest ache and my jaw and think that bad things are about to happen so I get into a outburst every night I think things must change but they never.
I have told my doctor and mental health worker about this and they just said it is something i just have to control but i find it damn hard.
I try to shut off from it all but that never works it just always the thought that the anxiety that a growing family is having on me is that i am going to have a major attack anf end up with the lights flashing on the way to a&e (and as we most know it is a scary place when you are all alone).
But when my anxiety symptoms start up it is always chest pain and jaw pain, But my doctor says it is just anxiety.
As I said Please Don't Judge Me Too Hard I really do try to stay calm