sahara
08-11-12, 12:14
I feel really lonely, like I have no good friends except from one, no-one ever rings me or texts me to see if I want to go out apart from the one friend.
I do go out with people, but I always instigate the arrangement.
I went out with a someone to the cinema who I have known for a while 2 years, and all the way there and back we laughed and joked, I mean really laughed and I felt like we had made a connection, but now she is all cool and dsimissive when I suggest doing something else. I have left it while between that and suggesting doing something else cos I dont want to go full on too quickly. But I just dont understand.
I just feel like if I was not to bother arranging anything, no-one would ring me and that makes me lonely despite being surrounded by people.
Does anyone else feel like this, its making me very low and my husband doesnt seem to understand
Its making me more self concious and anxious and even harder to talk to people incase I am boring or something.
I just don't know what to do.
Sorry if this is in the wrong forum mods x
I do go out with people, but I always instigate the arrangement.
I went out with a someone to the cinema who I have known for a while 2 years, and all the way there and back we laughed and joked, I mean really laughed and I felt like we had made a connection, but now she is all cool and dsimissive when I suggest doing something else. I have left it while between that and suggesting doing something else cos I dont want to go full on too quickly. But I just dont understand.
I just feel like if I was not to bother arranging anything, no-one would ring me and that makes me lonely despite being surrounded by people.
Does anyone else feel like this, its making me very low and my husband doesnt seem to understand
Its making me more self concious and anxious and even harder to talk to people incase I am boring or something.
I just don't know what to do.
Sorry if this is in the wrong forum mods x