GirlAfraid23
21-11-12, 17:08
Hi guys,
This is a bit of a strange post and is making me slightly uncomfortable writing about it but I think I have to.
I work in a primary school, a reception class actually and the children there are all lovely. However one particular little boy has attached himself to me since day one.
I'm not sure why or how it happened but he is constantly with me and won't leave my side a lot of the time.
Whenever he see's me come into the classroom in the morning he will run up to me with his arms out, today when he got told off at school by another teaching assistant he started crying and instantly came to me to cuddle me and try and sit on my lap to be comforted.
Of course he's only 4 years old and from what I know he doesn't see his parents much at home as they both work full time and have often missed out of school plays etc. So I can see why he craves the attention.
But being the naturally attached/obsessive person that I am, I'm starting to worry that I will get too attached to him. I also don't want any teachers/pupils to think he is my favourite or I am giving him special treatment.
I would really love my own child soon and so perhaps this is partly the issue, my maternal "broody" instinct kicking in. My partner isn't so keen just yet.
I am also anxious about this because I don't want him to become reliant on me if that makes any sense.
Just to be clear this isn't in any "odd" way either.
Anyone got any tips? Its making me quite anxious.
This is a bit of a strange post and is making me slightly uncomfortable writing about it but I think I have to.
I work in a primary school, a reception class actually and the children there are all lovely. However one particular little boy has attached himself to me since day one.
I'm not sure why or how it happened but he is constantly with me and won't leave my side a lot of the time.
Whenever he see's me come into the classroom in the morning he will run up to me with his arms out, today when he got told off at school by another teaching assistant he started crying and instantly came to me to cuddle me and try and sit on my lap to be comforted.
Of course he's only 4 years old and from what I know he doesn't see his parents much at home as they both work full time and have often missed out of school plays etc. So I can see why he craves the attention.
But being the naturally attached/obsessive person that I am, I'm starting to worry that I will get too attached to him. I also don't want any teachers/pupils to think he is my favourite or I am giving him special treatment.
I would really love my own child soon and so perhaps this is partly the issue, my maternal "broody" instinct kicking in. My partner isn't so keen just yet.
I am also anxious about this because I don't want him to become reliant on me if that makes any sense.
Just to be clear this isn't in any "odd" way either.
Anyone got any tips? Its making me quite anxious.