grace.M
16-01-13, 15:03
anxiety and panic attacks have hit me over the holidays, i had my housemates who i have been living with for 2 years think it was ok to tell me that thay did dent want to live with me in the new uni year, the only reason i got was 'it would be easier' i knew something like this would happen as they were always close to each other.. and i found it easier to do my own thing, and with what was mild social anxiety at the time (id managed to handle it somewhat over the years) i did try to socialise with them and help around the house
thay invited me to join in helping with a christmas meal, cook a bit and enjoy an evening with them.. i felt really involved and we all talked, little did i know it was when thay would tell me :/
well i was going home the next day and i was in no way to even think about talking to them about it i was so hurt that thay would think it was ok to tell me like that, even if thay had no idea i suffered from panic attacks and anxiety. over the holidays i was constantly on edge all my social and health anxieties came back and i couldn't sleep or eat for the most part, i was on a constant down and it was nearly christmas (lucky me) i was kept up by a constant worry and fear about going back and having to live with them for another 5 months i felt like thay all hated me. i hadn't had a panic attack in months previous to this but just before new years i had a panic attack in front of family (to my horror) and it was the worst feeling knowing it was going to happen, luckily thay were supportive and calmed me down before it got too bad.
I'm now in my new term in uni and the only escape i have is my boyfriends place and I'm so lucky he is supportive about the whole thing, he knew i suffered with panic attacks before this happened so he wasn't too shocked to wake up to find me in the middle of one recently, again i get so hopeless because i used to be able to make sure i wasn't around anyone when i panicked and i even managed to keep the anxiety and panic saved for when I'm on my own and think too much, not anymore.. everything has hit me again, i even got panic in swimming pool changing rooms and when i was out with friends.
basicaly I've been on edge and fearing for new panic attacks all the time. I've been avoiding going back to the house i pay rent for and i haven't been attending uni and missing seminars purely because of a fear of panic and anxiety creeping up more and more. and along side this my motivation has completely gone... I'm so upset, blaming my anxiety for this happening and worrying I'm too much hassle to be around,
sorry its a lot to read but thank you if you have
thay invited me to join in helping with a christmas meal, cook a bit and enjoy an evening with them.. i felt really involved and we all talked, little did i know it was when thay would tell me :/
well i was going home the next day and i was in no way to even think about talking to them about it i was so hurt that thay would think it was ok to tell me like that, even if thay had no idea i suffered from panic attacks and anxiety. over the holidays i was constantly on edge all my social and health anxieties came back and i couldn't sleep or eat for the most part, i was on a constant down and it was nearly christmas (lucky me) i was kept up by a constant worry and fear about going back and having to live with them for another 5 months i felt like thay all hated me. i hadn't had a panic attack in months previous to this but just before new years i had a panic attack in front of family (to my horror) and it was the worst feeling knowing it was going to happen, luckily thay were supportive and calmed me down before it got too bad.
I'm now in my new term in uni and the only escape i have is my boyfriends place and I'm so lucky he is supportive about the whole thing, he knew i suffered with panic attacks before this happened so he wasn't too shocked to wake up to find me in the middle of one recently, again i get so hopeless because i used to be able to make sure i wasn't around anyone when i panicked and i even managed to keep the anxiety and panic saved for when I'm on my own and think too much, not anymore.. everything has hit me again, i even got panic in swimming pool changing rooms and when i was out with friends.
basicaly I've been on edge and fearing for new panic attacks all the time. I've been avoiding going back to the house i pay rent for and i haven't been attending uni and missing seminars purely because of a fear of panic and anxiety creeping up more and more. and along side this my motivation has completely gone... I'm so upset, blaming my anxiety for this happening and worrying I'm too much hassle to be around,
sorry its a lot to read but thank you if you have