Dont know where to put my problem but can men read only thank you

[little kyle]

Where to start im 19 years of age white British and im ashamed of my man hood 3.14 inches long i do have a girlfriend and im probably right im not going to grow nomore.....

But right now i have been depressed for 1 week none stop just thinking when i here friends going on about theres like its a competition i stay out of it im that ashamed of myself

thoughts of topping myself for it are there just hate the situation im in right now i know people will read this and laugh its excepted and i know when some one says they have a 3.14 inch thing they will laugh

Im I really F***ed just really want some good advice

Thank you for reading

[CameronG]

Hi mate, d

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Hi mate, dOnt worry about the size of your penis, aslong as it works and does its job that's all that matters. If your mates or you hear people bragging chances are there tlking garbage, your not going to here someon brag thEre one inch are you??

Have a read of this:

http://m.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/penissize.htm

Cam

[times71]

Well, like my girlfriend says, it's not the size that counts, but its how you use it that does. Assuming you have been physical with your girlfriend then she might be the best person to talk too. At 19 there is still a chance it could grow, but if it doesn't is it such a big deal? I am not particular big in that department, and its never been an issue at all, trust me on that dude. Plus what size is normal ? Society says we have to a certain size, well don't believe that lie. Seriously, don't worry about it, life is about what we have, not what we don't have.. You can spend all your days being depressed about it, or you can stick one finger up to the world and say, this is me, this is who I am society will not dictate how I should be. Please don't allow things outside your control rule you feelings , enjoy what you have dude. Anyway, hope this makes sense.

Peace

[Pipkin]

Kyle - I've moved your thread to male personal issues for you.

Pip

[mikewales]

Kyle, if it isn't an issue for the person you are with, then don't worry about it.

If other blokes are competing about the size of theirs, then that is pretty odd ! what do they do, get them out in the pub, get an erection and then compare them ???

[ricardo]

Although you state "men only" you may actually get a response from a lady which will set your mind at rest.

Come on ladies :winks:

[Lissa101]

It really, really doesn't matter! The sexiest thing in a man when it comes to the bedroom, for me anyway, is confidence and good tekkers :) I'm 31 so I know this stuff better then teenage women ;)

[little kyle]

Thank you everyone so much I really do feel better

[Tufty]

Hi Kyle, I'm a nurse and seen literally hundreds of willies, possibly thousands - I work in that kind of department :D They come in all sorts of sizes and shapes (believe it or not) I see men with willies from 1/2 inch (yep honestly) to 4 1/2 inches, I'd say 3 inches was about average. BUT for a woman it honestly doesn't matter and I often see ladies who complain that their partners willies are too long and hurt them during sex. Woman do not need a big willy to be satisfied sexually, they need mental, emotional and other physical stimulation too.

[Gotagetthroughthis]

Hi Kyle,

Honestly mate you do not need to worry about this, there are so many more important things that girls care about.

I used to have the same worries and it used to get me so down like it has done with you but honestly from my experience girls do not really care.

If you don't mind me asking is that 3.14 inches Erect or flaccid?

In the end I just thought what the hell and pushed past my size worries and not one girl has said a word about it. They come in all different shapes and sizes and its not the size of it that counts its the man behind it.

[little kyle]

3.15inch soft

[mikewales]

OK, when people talk about average penis sizes etc... they are talking about erect, not soft. After all the size when it is soft isnt very useful for sex. Also the size when soft doesnt have any relation to when it is erect, so some peoples will be much bigger when hard, some not much difference.

The 6" or so average size is when erect

[little kyle]

OK, when people talk about average penis sizes etc... they are talking about erect, not soft. After all the size when it is soft isnt very useful for sex. Also the size when soft doesnt have any relation to when it is erect, so some peoples will be much bigger when hard, some not much difference.

The 6" or so average size is when erect



did not know that

[Elle-Kay]

Ok, I know you asked for no female input, so I'm genuinely sorry if this reply is out of turn as I know it must have taken courage to post this. However, I'm a married lady of 31 and trust me: I'm not embarrassed or amused by your penis worries, and neither should you be :)

What I wanted to say was simply this: aside from all the (excellent) advice you've already been given, if you imagined the boot was on the other foot and your girlfriend admitted to feeling somehow inadequate for you because her breasts were smaller than average, would you tell her that her fears were true, or would you tell her that you love her for who she is, not for the size of her boobs? :)

[Gotagetthroughthis]

3.15inch soft

Well there you go. You have noting to worry about then. Most studies when talking about size are talking about Erect length and recent studies show average is below 6 inches so you are fine.

[little kyle]

Ok, I know you asked for no female input, so I'm genuinely sorry if this reply is out of turn as I know it must have taken courage to post this. However, I'm a married lady of 31 and trust me: I'm not embarrassed or amused by your penis worries, and neither should you be :)

What I wanted to say was simply this: aside from all the (excellent) advice you've already been given, if you imagined the boot was on the other foot and your girlfriend admitted to feeling somehow inadequate for you because her breasts were smaller than average, would you tell her that her fears were true, or would you tell her that you love her for who she is, not for the size of her boobs? :)

I love my girlfriend to the moon and back her body to me is amazing and that for me is enough sex life is great she has never said anything about my penis being small

I spoke to her about it and she said its not that size but the power behind it

It's just being a man it's depressing like boob size to some women

[mikewales]

Today, measure it while it is erect and see how big it is, the real average for men seems to be between 5 and 5 1/2 " ( not 6, us men often add a bit extra on lol ) - this was from a study someone did where they got someone to measure them properly.

If yours is within this range then you are average.

[ricardo]

little kyle

I wish I had your problems :)

[silent bob]

dude, i have seen alot of penises, done alot of things with alot of em too, and size has almost nothing to do with it. the best sex i have ever had is definatly not with a 10 inch monster... best i ever had was someone of only 4 erect in fact... its completely the man behind it and what he does to make the other person feel good... (totally technique mate try not to be depressed about it) :)

[little kyle]

Today, measure it while it is erect and see how big it is, the real average for men seems to be between 5 and 5 1/2 " ( not 6, us men often add a bit extra on lol ) - this was from a study someone did where they got someone to measure them properly.

If yours is within this range then you are average.


5.4inch erect

[mikewales]

Well that falls in the average size, so I don't think you have anything to worry about, hopefully this will put your mind at rest a bit more now

[little kyle]

i really feel fine about the size now a specially thank you to mikewales Thank you to everyone else to for all the feedback and info provided to me about my issue

:)

[Rachy-Rach]

I'm a girl and I read your post - sorry

A few more questions:

Just do clarify do you mean 3.14 erect?

Are you engaging in a sexual relationship with your girlfriend?

Have you spoken to her about how you feel?

I previously dated a guy who was actually smaller than yourself. It didn't work out with us for a reason other than his size. He is now happily married to a girl he loves and who loves him right back. I don't know about his sex life but he was always a happy kind of guy.

Honestly, if a girl loves you for you, it will not matter one bit. That's the bottom line.

Do you find sex fulfilling?

There are so many men out there who are unable to even have sex who I am sure would LOVE to be in your position.

It may help to see what you do have than what you feel you don't.

As long and you and your girlfriend are able to enjoy a sexual relationship you should be fine. Is that any help at all?

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Just read back over the post and see that when hard you are 5.4 inches - that is way normal!! The guy I was writing about in the above post was your soft size when hard!

OK, here goes... There are two types of willies: "Growers" and "Showers"

Growers are small when hard but get bigger when erect

Showers are permanently big but do not get bigger when they get hard, they just "stand up"

You have a grower - many girls's favourite - not only that you are actually a really great size!!

I'm so glad you made this post. I hope that you can 100% feel absolutely normal as a result of this post.

When anyone talks about size, they ALWAYS refer to the erect size. I've seen willies shrink to less than an inch when very cold! But they are still able to make 5 inches when hard.

You sound absolutely normal and more than able to satisfy both your girlfriend and yourself. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of, quite the opposite in fact! You're significantly bigger than some I've seen when hard! Enjoy what you have :)

[Col]

ok, i know you asked for no female input, so i'm genuinely sorry if this reply is out of turn as i know it must have taken courage to post this. However, i'm a married lady of 31 and trust me: I'm not embarrassed or amused by your penis worries, and neither should you be :)

what i wanted to say was simply this: Aside from all the (excellent) advice you've already been given, if you imagined the boot was on the other foot and your girlfriend admitted to feeling somehow inadequate for you because her breasts were smaller than average, would you tell her that her fears were true, or would you tell her that you love her for who she is, not for the size of her boobs? :)

Glad you compared to the 'boob' thing Elle! Good to mention, something to think about!

[william wallace]

5.6" x 5.6" = studmuffin like me. Of course I'm talking circumferance as well as length. You'd feel me ladies:winks:

[Stormsky]

5.6" x 5.6" = studmuffin like me. Of course I'm talking circumferance as well as length. You'd feel me ladies:winks:

You hit the giggle cord that's for sure!

[william wallace]

You hit the giggle cord that's for sure!

Is that what they call it these days?:noangel:

[Tufty]

Where have you been Mr W.? Your absence, I hope, is a sign that all is good in the mighty Scots life? We need more humour on the forum though maybe you're serious and that's the reason Scotsmen don't wear underwear under their kilts, they can't be contained:blush:

[william wallace]

Where have you been Mr W.? Your absence, I hope, is a sign that all is good in the mighty Scots life? We need more humour on the forum though maybe you're serious and that's the reason Scotsmen don't wear underwear under their kilts, they can't be contained:blush:

Hi Tufty, I was never far away, having a wee read, logged off, every couple of days and also answering PM's. I'm pretty good now so best not to get too involved with stuff that triggers the old enemy:blush:
However I broke my leg and ankle a couple of weeks back so grounded until the 26th of this month. Too much time on my hands so started posting again.

Kilt story ok..

Back in 2009 my oldest son got married. My older sister was there and a bit the worse for wear. I was standing in front of where she was sitting and she slid her hand up my kilt and "cupped" me:blush:
She turned to Mrs Wallace and said with a wink ' now I know why you two have been together 37 years ':D

[Eyji1]

Being bigger isn't better... My gf is often really sore for 1 - 3 days after we have sex. I'm not proud of it. It literally sucks to have to be careful all the time in the heat of the moment... It's not the size that counts, but how you use it. The competition for the biggest dick is for people who have nothing more important to show for their lives other then dicks...

People who brag are often the most insecure.

[mnaha]

Yeah its not good to have a 6 inch when your wife or gf had surgery they reconstructed her from scratch and its only 2 1/2 inches deep..it hurts her but then after a long time it stretches although the doctor said it couldnt be done but then it did but you have to be careful after all that bending on your penis that could cause peyronnies disease or injured penis so sometimes a big one isn't good and other times when you have a woman that is a bottomless pitt it is a good thing..so half dozen of this and half dozen of that in the end all that matters is well you are BOTH happy and everyone says sex isnt important but to tell you the truth in the end it means a lot

[Davit]

Quit looking at porn it isn't realistic. The area of stimulation on a woman is not six inches deep. Ask her.