swgrl09
29-01-13, 14:05
I think I posted here before about my work troubles ... so sorry if redundant but a new issue has come up.
So as you may know I am looking to transfer to the opening closer to home (10 min drive as opposed to current 45 min drive). The corporate office does not want me to even though I have a great record with them, great reviews, etc. Turns out one of my coworkers was talking to the corporate office behnd my back about not wanting them to let me transfer and they are actually listening to him. He is the maintenance superintendant at the building I do social work in. He is mad because I have only been in my position a year and a half (did the same job full time at another office with the company for two years prior to that). Well, the company rule is you only have to be in your current position for 6 months to transfer. And, as my supervisor said to me, what the heck does he care? He does the maintenance and works in a different department.
So now I am at work at my current office and he is acting like nothing is wrong, being friendly, etc. He doesn't know that I know what he did. He even has the nerve to come up to me and be like "Wow, that is a great option for you (he lives near where I live, we have a similar commute), I hope it goes through." And I am thinking BS!!!! It is hard to just smile and pretend I don't know what he did. I used to consider him a friend and we'd chat and laugh together and now he is acting like nothing has changed. What a back-stabber.
Either way if my transfer doesn't go through, how do I continue working with this back-stabber? I left the other office because I had to go part time (and job hours are dependent on the size of the building so I had to change buildings) and the only opening was this one 45 minutes away. Now that the one in my hometown is open, it would be sooooo good for me. This d-bag is ruining it.
I just don't know if I can work with such a fake person. There are only three people working my current building so me, him, and one other person. Every time I see him I just want to tell him I know what he did. I dread if I have to stay here with him.
So as you may know I am looking to transfer to the opening closer to home (10 min drive as opposed to current 45 min drive). The corporate office does not want me to even though I have a great record with them, great reviews, etc. Turns out one of my coworkers was talking to the corporate office behnd my back about not wanting them to let me transfer and they are actually listening to him. He is the maintenance superintendant at the building I do social work in. He is mad because I have only been in my position a year and a half (did the same job full time at another office with the company for two years prior to that). Well, the company rule is you only have to be in your current position for 6 months to transfer. And, as my supervisor said to me, what the heck does he care? He does the maintenance and works in a different department.
So now I am at work at my current office and he is acting like nothing is wrong, being friendly, etc. He doesn't know that I know what he did. He even has the nerve to come up to me and be like "Wow, that is a great option for you (he lives near where I live, we have a similar commute), I hope it goes through." And I am thinking BS!!!! It is hard to just smile and pretend I don't know what he did. I used to consider him a friend and we'd chat and laugh together and now he is acting like nothing has changed. What a back-stabber.
Either way if my transfer doesn't go through, how do I continue working with this back-stabber? I left the other office because I had to go part time (and job hours are dependent on the size of the building so I had to change buildings) and the only opening was this one 45 minutes away. Now that the one in my hometown is open, it would be sooooo good for me. This d-bag is ruining it.
I just don't know if I can work with such a fake person. There are only three people working my current building so me, him, and one other person. Every time I see him I just want to tell him I know what he did. I dread if I have to stay here with him.