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Em.ma
08-02-13, 17:58
Just had a phone call from a man saying I was owed money and got my details from some company that I never had anything to do with and don't reconizge . My name and number he has.
I get very worried when things like this happened. He'd said I had a loan and I've never had one. I didn't understand what company he meant it was letters but I've had nought to do with them!
I get very worried when ever this happens as I think someone is trying to find me and has my details !

Annie0904
08-02-13, 18:11
I get these phone calls just about every day Emma, I just put the phone down on them. They say they know you have had a loan and often even state an amount. They are just trying to get business. It is usually for PPI. Just hang up on them, they are so annoying.

Em.ma
08-02-13, 18:56
Thanks.
Very upset today mum told me I'd caused my brothers mental health issues and I'd be chucked out of home if he doesn't get better.:(
She doesn't know about my mental health.
She stormed in my room and said that. I asked how and she said by saying stuff like 'how back to me causing me to shout' she grabbed me and shook me to :(

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She doesn't get I've suffered long enough.
I've had enough!!

Annie0904
08-02-13, 18:58
Sorry to hear that Emma :( Sending you hugs :hugs::hugs:

Em.ma
08-02-13, 19:34
If I ever have kids she won't be Part of Their lives I never want to see her again.
Thanks annie

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Who can I tell that can help me sort my life out?
I can't go on.
I don't feel any love for her and call her by her name not mum.
She's not my mum only biologically

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Who can I tell that can help me sort my life out?
I can't go on.
I don't feel any love for her and call her by her name not mum.
She's not my mum only biologically

Annie0904
08-02-13, 19:36
Emma, I am sorry you are feeling so upset tonight. Are you seeing a counselor at the moment that you can talk to or do you have a family member or close friend you can talk to? :bighug1:

Em.ma
08-02-13, 19:39
I am hopefully meet a friend Sunday (I only have two ) for coffee and a chat. Also hopefully meeting the other one tommorow for evening for dinner and catch up etc...
I am waiting for cbt at the moment but I now am considering going back to my counseller from ages ago.

Janine
08-02-13, 20:04
Emma i can sense from your words that you are feeling very upset and hurt, can you get out of the house tomorrow for a while so that you are not in that environment and maybe meet your friend a bit earlier, I think you really need some care and understanding. Have you never told your parents how you are feeling?

Annie0904
08-02-13, 20:05
2 good friends who are always there for you are worth more than a dozen who aren't :) I have 1 really good friend who I can talk to about anything at all and who I know will be there for me no matter what happens in my life :)

Daisy Sue
08-02-13, 21:25
can you not get help in moving to alternative accommodation from social services?? it doesn't sound a healthy environment for any of you where you are right now :(

Em.ma
08-02-13, 23:38
Hi.
Can't meet earlier as his working but will be meeting in the evening. She's being all nice again now I get very confused.
Need to sleep on it :(