Rennie1989
10-09-06, 19:18
Hiya
My boyfriend tends to feel sick before he goes home (on a bus) from my house and when I leave his hometown back to mine. His anxiety is the fear of me leaving him, again. We broke up twice. But he feels sick, and has been physically sick loads of time, and not only do I feel sorry for him but I feel guilty for what I've done to him.
But today (yeah, I've just got back from the bus station) he was fine, totally fine! I told him that "Like when I have a Panic Attacks if you think about being sick, you will be sick. As this is mental you have to tell yourself that you won't be sick and that you will be fine otherwise you feel like crap." it worked today and he was fine!
Now he's been like this since May and I think he should see someone, two questions.
1- Should I carry on with what I was saying to him but if I should see someone,
2- Who should we see?
It's hurtful seeing someone you love with this anxiety and physical symptoms, but weird that the fact that you've been there yourself.
AKA Scooter Girl
My boyfriend tends to feel sick before he goes home (on a bus) from my house and when I leave his hometown back to mine. His anxiety is the fear of me leaving him, again. We broke up twice. But he feels sick, and has been physically sick loads of time, and not only do I feel sorry for him but I feel guilty for what I've done to him.
But today (yeah, I've just got back from the bus station) he was fine, totally fine! I told him that "Like when I have a Panic Attacks if you think about being sick, you will be sick. As this is mental you have to tell yourself that you won't be sick and that you will be fine otherwise you feel like crap." it worked today and he was fine!
Now he's been like this since May and I think he should see someone, two questions.
1- Should I carry on with what I was saying to him but if I should see someone,
2- Who should we see?
It's hurtful seeing someone you love with this anxiety and physical symptoms, but weird that the fact that you've been there yourself.
AKA Scooter Girl