LauraJF
03-04-13, 14:26
I've been a member here for a few years and I don't post often so it's probably time for a new introduction. I've been engaged for 5 years, own an old farmhouse with my fiance just 3 miles from here and agoraphobia is preventing me from visiting the other house and moving in.
My biggest challenge is driving myself to get there. I like to feel in control and I don't like being a passenger so I prefer to drive myself but I experience anxiety when I'm driving so I don't drive very often.
Right now my plan is to desensitize myself by getting up early, around 5 am to go for a drive when there aren't many cars on the roads and the kids aren't out waiting for the school buses.
I drive a 19 year old 4 x 4 pickup truck and last year my father started commenting about how loud it is and that I wake him when I start it. I never realized it was loud until he started commenting so now I feel too self conscious to start it. If I wait too long my mother will be up and she makes comments that when I go out I should stay out and not come back home right away so I feel self conscious to go out for a drive when she's awake.
It's a new morning, just past 9 am and here I'm am, still in my bedroom. I felt too self conscious to go out this morning and a man is coming to work on the house today. He parks in front of my truck and blocks it in so I won't be able to drive today, even if I want to without asking him to move first. I feel my best when I first wake up, my anxiety starts to build as the day goes on so I prefer to go out when I'm well rested. Hopefully someone here will relate and I'm not just babbling. :blush:
I hope to get past this feeling of self consciousness and just go, maybe tomorrow. If the worker wasn't going to be here today I would at least go out and sit in my truck for a few minutes but I feel weird doing that when he's here.
My biggest challenge is driving myself to get there. I like to feel in control and I don't like being a passenger so I prefer to drive myself but I experience anxiety when I'm driving so I don't drive very often.
Right now my plan is to desensitize myself by getting up early, around 5 am to go for a drive when there aren't many cars on the roads and the kids aren't out waiting for the school buses.
I drive a 19 year old 4 x 4 pickup truck and last year my father started commenting about how loud it is and that I wake him when I start it. I never realized it was loud until he started commenting so now I feel too self conscious to start it. If I wait too long my mother will be up and she makes comments that when I go out I should stay out and not come back home right away so I feel self conscious to go out for a drive when she's awake.
It's a new morning, just past 9 am and here I'm am, still in my bedroom. I felt too self conscious to go out this morning and a man is coming to work on the house today. He parks in front of my truck and blocks it in so I won't be able to drive today, even if I want to without asking him to move first. I feel my best when I first wake up, my anxiety starts to build as the day goes on so I prefer to go out when I'm well rested. Hopefully someone here will relate and I'm not just babbling. :blush:
I hope to get past this feeling of self consciousness and just go, maybe tomorrow. If the worker wasn't going to be here today I would at least go out and sit in my truck for a few minutes but I feel weird doing that when he's here.