cherrylite
15-04-13, 00:41
Hi i’m new to this forum and haven’t been diagnosed with anxiety but was wondering if I have it? Something is definately wrong with me and it would be nice to give it a label and find some help.
I’ve always been a sensitive type, and was a very shy child. I’m 34 now and feel like i’ve mostly grown out of the shyness but I find it very hard to get close to people in some respects. I would love a relationship but never can seem to meet mr right as guys I click with don’t seem to want to know. I am getting myself out there all the time, but on the inside I have always had low self esteem and constantly compare myself to others. Everyone else seems to be able to get a relationship, a mortgage, kids etc but I have barely had a boyfriend my whole life and I’m embarrased about that. I live in a houseshare which really stresses me out as the noiseis constant and because some housemates are quite inconsiderate. However the thought of moving out on my own terrifies me as i’ve done it before and felt I was going nuts spending so much time on my own.
I have a good circle of friends and make friends easily, but since I was 18 I’ve moved around a lot so they aren’t all in once place but around the world. My family too is scattered across the globe, so nowhere feels like home.
I find it hard to concentrate at work, and I frequently find it hard to sleep. The slightest niggle will stop me relaxing. I find myself getting irratable at such small things and so it makes some matters worse. I basically feel like i’m going around in circles in my life, unable to make important decisions or move my life forward. When I have a drink or 2 things feel much brigher and in perspective, but I don’t have a drinking problem. Hangovers make me feel very depressed so that puts me off drinking.
If I explain some of the above to my GP is there a chance I can get a prescription for valium or something else to help me sleep and calm me down? I would really appreciate anyones thoughts and opinions.
I’ve always been a sensitive type, and was a very shy child. I’m 34 now and feel like i’ve mostly grown out of the shyness but I find it very hard to get close to people in some respects. I would love a relationship but never can seem to meet mr right as guys I click with don’t seem to want to know. I am getting myself out there all the time, but on the inside I have always had low self esteem and constantly compare myself to others. Everyone else seems to be able to get a relationship, a mortgage, kids etc but I have barely had a boyfriend my whole life and I’m embarrased about that. I live in a houseshare which really stresses me out as the noiseis constant and because some housemates are quite inconsiderate. However the thought of moving out on my own terrifies me as i’ve done it before and felt I was going nuts spending so much time on my own.
I have a good circle of friends and make friends easily, but since I was 18 I’ve moved around a lot so they aren’t all in once place but around the world. My family too is scattered across the globe, so nowhere feels like home.
I find it hard to concentrate at work, and I frequently find it hard to sleep. The slightest niggle will stop me relaxing. I find myself getting irratable at such small things and so it makes some matters worse. I basically feel like i’m going around in circles in my life, unable to make important decisions or move my life forward. When I have a drink or 2 things feel much brigher and in perspective, but I don’t have a drinking problem. Hangovers make me feel very depressed so that puts me off drinking.
If I explain some of the above to my GP is there a chance I can get a prescription for valium or something else to help me sleep and calm me down? I would really appreciate anyones thoughts and opinions.