davidbirch321
15-04-13, 20:41
hi there,
sorry this isn't really about panic attacks or anxiety (well kinda is)
but I need advise.
basically when I was watching TV with my mum, i was asking out family names and stuff, i knew her previous surname (before she meet my dad) and i also knew about another surname name she use to have.
i asked about it and she said she was married before she meet my Dad.
I was in a huge state of shock, and didn't say anything but inside was in utter shock.
i am now so worried about this and wondering why nothing has been said for 19 years!!!!!! i understand it would be weird to just one day say it, but i also dont get why i havent found out until now, and it was so casual the way it was said as if it isn't a big deal! (i think it is)
I want to ask about it but i am scared about doing it, just incase its something horrible (previous husband died), (went to prison) anything like that.
I am also worrying that my dad isn't my real dad. (although i think he is)
what shall i do!
is there anyway of looking at marriage records online so i can find out about it!
sorry this isn't really about panic attacks or anxiety (well kinda is)
but I need advise.
basically when I was watching TV with my mum, i was asking out family names and stuff, i knew her previous surname (before she meet my dad) and i also knew about another surname name she use to have.
i asked about it and she said she was married before she meet my Dad.
I was in a huge state of shock, and didn't say anything but inside was in utter shock.
i am now so worried about this and wondering why nothing has been said for 19 years!!!!!! i understand it would be weird to just one day say it, but i also dont get why i havent found out until now, and it was so casual the way it was said as if it isn't a big deal! (i think it is)
I want to ask about it but i am scared about doing it, just incase its something horrible (previous husband died), (went to prison) anything like that.
I am also worrying that my dad isn't my real dad. (although i think he is)
what shall i do!
is there anyway of looking at marriage records online so i can find out about it!