emlica
24-07-13, 13:11
Hi everyone,
I know we're not meant to seek medical advice here, so I guess I'm just wanting to hear some other people's experiences and maybe some 'how to chill out about it' type advice as well! I'm new to the forum, mainly because I'm completely new to having this type of anxiety. I guess I've always been inclined to be a bit stressy about things, but this is the first time it's been quite so... all-consuming, I guess. Sorry this is long, but I think just getting it off my chest is probably helping!
I had a nasty (downwards!) tummy bug that started about a month ago. It lasted a good five days, which is longer than any tummy bug I've had before. Since then - so 3+ weeks - my bowel habits have not gone back to normal. My doctor - who I've now seen twice about it - says that for some people it can take "a couple of months" for the bowels to return to normal, and she doesn't seem unduly concerned. But I can't convince myself to not be concerned! I have just had some blood tests done (results at the end of the week), but I got the impression she ordered them more for my peace of mind than because she thought they'd show something! She says it sounds like a bit of mild IBS after the gastroenteritis, but the blood tests will rule out anything else.
My symptoms are:
- what I think is an excess of gas being produced in my digestive system, leading to (again, what I assume are) gas-related 'twinges'. They seem to happen mostly (but not exclusively) in the right side of my abdomen. Interestingly (?), when I had the bug, it was the right side of my abdomen that felt worst. It's discomfort rather than pain, and it's not all the time by any means.
- slightly loose BMs. It's not diarrhoea (not what I'd call diarrhoea anyway), and it's not *every* movement - I have the occasional solid one! - but they're not 'formed', if you know what I mean? And I can see undigested food in them. But I'll be honest, before my bug I wasn't a great inspector of my poo (!), so maybe that was always the case. I only seem to go in the morning, but I'll go a few times in fairly quick succession on some mornings - that did actually happen occasionally before the bug as well, to be fair. After that I don't generally have to go for the rest of the day. I don't usually have pain before or during, no really obvious cramps (some gurgles occasionally), and not particularly bad urgency either. No blood, perhaps a bit of mucus (hard to tell), variable colour, generally smell 'normal'. It's just as if things are moving through my system too quickly, I think.
- lack of appetite. But the thing is, I'm pretty confident that this is, in reality, at least partly a side effect of the anxiety. My appetite is much, much worse when I've been at home on my own worrying about why I haven't recovered yet, whereas yesterday, for example, when I'd just been to the doctor and she'd said it was likely to just be taking a bit longer than usual to recover, plus I was very busy at work, I ate normally (still wouldn't have said I was hungry, exactly, but didn't have to force food down). Today, for some reason, I can feel that I'm anxious again, and I've just struggled to eat my sandwich at lunchtime. Which makes me anxious because I think lack of appetite is a sign of something bad, even though logically I know it's the anxiety that's causing it.
- and, of course, anxiety. Which is sort of making me sort of emotional. Ridiculously, I'm now occasionally getting worried about how worried I am (I know!!), thinking that there's something wrong with me mentally. It's constantly in the back of my mind. When I'm particularly anxious I struggle to concentrate, struggle to look forward to doing things, etc.
And in all that, have I even said what I'm anxious about? Nope. Because I'm not even sure that I know, I just have this 'oh god what if there's something wrong with me and I can never live a completely normal life again?' panic going on. I think my main worry is that when the doctor said it sounded like mild IBS, I immediately thought 'that's a permanent condition, it's not curable, oh my god, I'm going to have to spend my life planning visits to the toilet'. Which is a depressing thought! When in fact, I'm not even sure if the doctor meant that she thought I had 'long term' IBS, given that she said it could just be that the bug was taking a while to clear up and that for some people it could take a couple of months. I'm also starting to worry that, for example, I might have an intolerance to something (lactose, for instance) - which doesn't sound like a disaster, does it? But it upsets me anyway because of stupid things like not being able to have icecream - I know, first world problems, right? And that maybe, if things are moving through my system too quickly, and I'm seeing undigested food, does that mean I'm going to be malnourished?
See? Worrying about absolutely stupid things and I'm sure the worry will be making my bowels worse.
I know we're not meant to seek medical advice here, so I guess I'm just wanting to hear some other people's experiences and maybe some 'how to chill out about it' type advice as well! I'm new to the forum, mainly because I'm completely new to having this type of anxiety. I guess I've always been inclined to be a bit stressy about things, but this is the first time it's been quite so... all-consuming, I guess. Sorry this is long, but I think just getting it off my chest is probably helping!
I had a nasty (downwards!) tummy bug that started about a month ago. It lasted a good five days, which is longer than any tummy bug I've had before. Since then - so 3+ weeks - my bowel habits have not gone back to normal. My doctor - who I've now seen twice about it - says that for some people it can take "a couple of months" for the bowels to return to normal, and she doesn't seem unduly concerned. But I can't convince myself to not be concerned! I have just had some blood tests done (results at the end of the week), but I got the impression she ordered them more for my peace of mind than because she thought they'd show something! She says it sounds like a bit of mild IBS after the gastroenteritis, but the blood tests will rule out anything else.
My symptoms are:
- what I think is an excess of gas being produced in my digestive system, leading to (again, what I assume are) gas-related 'twinges'. They seem to happen mostly (but not exclusively) in the right side of my abdomen. Interestingly (?), when I had the bug, it was the right side of my abdomen that felt worst. It's discomfort rather than pain, and it's not all the time by any means.
- slightly loose BMs. It's not diarrhoea (not what I'd call diarrhoea anyway), and it's not *every* movement - I have the occasional solid one! - but they're not 'formed', if you know what I mean? And I can see undigested food in them. But I'll be honest, before my bug I wasn't a great inspector of my poo (!), so maybe that was always the case. I only seem to go in the morning, but I'll go a few times in fairly quick succession on some mornings - that did actually happen occasionally before the bug as well, to be fair. After that I don't generally have to go for the rest of the day. I don't usually have pain before or during, no really obvious cramps (some gurgles occasionally), and not particularly bad urgency either. No blood, perhaps a bit of mucus (hard to tell), variable colour, generally smell 'normal'. It's just as if things are moving through my system too quickly, I think.
- lack of appetite. But the thing is, I'm pretty confident that this is, in reality, at least partly a side effect of the anxiety. My appetite is much, much worse when I've been at home on my own worrying about why I haven't recovered yet, whereas yesterday, for example, when I'd just been to the doctor and she'd said it was likely to just be taking a bit longer than usual to recover, plus I was very busy at work, I ate normally (still wouldn't have said I was hungry, exactly, but didn't have to force food down). Today, for some reason, I can feel that I'm anxious again, and I've just struggled to eat my sandwich at lunchtime. Which makes me anxious because I think lack of appetite is a sign of something bad, even though logically I know it's the anxiety that's causing it.
- and, of course, anxiety. Which is sort of making me sort of emotional. Ridiculously, I'm now occasionally getting worried about how worried I am (I know!!), thinking that there's something wrong with me mentally. It's constantly in the back of my mind. When I'm particularly anxious I struggle to concentrate, struggle to look forward to doing things, etc.
And in all that, have I even said what I'm anxious about? Nope. Because I'm not even sure that I know, I just have this 'oh god what if there's something wrong with me and I can never live a completely normal life again?' panic going on. I think my main worry is that when the doctor said it sounded like mild IBS, I immediately thought 'that's a permanent condition, it's not curable, oh my god, I'm going to have to spend my life planning visits to the toilet'. Which is a depressing thought! When in fact, I'm not even sure if the doctor meant that she thought I had 'long term' IBS, given that she said it could just be that the bug was taking a while to clear up and that for some people it could take a couple of months. I'm also starting to worry that, for example, I might have an intolerance to something (lactose, for instance) - which doesn't sound like a disaster, does it? But it upsets me anyway because of stupid things like not being able to have icecream - I know, first world problems, right? And that maybe, if things are moving through my system too quickly, and I'm seeing undigested food, does that mean I'm going to be malnourished?
See? Worrying about absolutely stupid things and I'm sure the worry will be making my bowels worse.