louzia
28-07-13, 23:22
Hi,
I'm new to this, sorry If it's posted in the wrong place? I'll start by introducing myself a little bit. I'm a 22 year old woman who is about to start a Law degree. Throughout my teens I bunked school as I got in with a bit of a bad crowd, hence why I'm starting uni now rather than when I was 18! I'm not totally sure when it all started, but somewhere over the past few years as I've started to sort my life out, I've become a bit weird (I think so anyway). I seem to have developed various OCD's (haven't been diagnosed), such as, I can only eat if I sit at the end of the table, from a small plate - however I often can't finish my food as I panic about the situation and can't swallow. Also, I count EVERYTHING! I use the counting to answer questions in my head, for example, odd numbers will always be a yes and even a no. I panic in shops, restaurants, bars, one to one conversations (with everyone but my boyfriend and parents) and I cannot sleep as night until I've ran the dust-buster around my room in case there are bugs somewhere. All this is bad enough, however, the other day and randomly found myself thinking about slitting my boyfriend's throat. I have been with him for almost 4 years, I love him with all my heart and I don't know why I would think that?! I also found myself thinking about harming my sister (in a sexual way). Again, I love her to pieces, both these things really upset me. I'm disgusted with myself, I've never had any thoughts of this nature before. I would never EVER act on either or these thoughts and I'm so upset that they even popped into my head, I avoid anything sharp and try to avoid my sister as much as possible as I'm so scared. I know I should probably see someone but I've tried before and I miss appointments because I can' face going, the idea of counselling make me panic and usually feel really sick. What can I do? I'm not a sick person, I hate myself for thinking any of these things.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, any help would be so appreciated and sorry for the length!
Lou xx
ps. Sorry if the quality of my writing is a bit all over the place, I really have struggled writing this. xx
I'm new to this, sorry If it's posted in the wrong place? I'll start by introducing myself a little bit. I'm a 22 year old woman who is about to start a Law degree. Throughout my teens I bunked school as I got in with a bit of a bad crowd, hence why I'm starting uni now rather than when I was 18! I'm not totally sure when it all started, but somewhere over the past few years as I've started to sort my life out, I've become a bit weird (I think so anyway). I seem to have developed various OCD's (haven't been diagnosed), such as, I can only eat if I sit at the end of the table, from a small plate - however I often can't finish my food as I panic about the situation and can't swallow. Also, I count EVERYTHING! I use the counting to answer questions in my head, for example, odd numbers will always be a yes and even a no. I panic in shops, restaurants, bars, one to one conversations (with everyone but my boyfriend and parents) and I cannot sleep as night until I've ran the dust-buster around my room in case there are bugs somewhere. All this is bad enough, however, the other day and randomly found myself thinking about slitting my boyfriend's throat. I have been with him for almost 4 years, I love him with all my heart and I don't know why I would think that?! I also found myself thinking about harming my sister (in a sexual way). Again, I love her to pieces, both these things really upset me. I'm disgusted with myself, I've never had any thoughts of this nature before. I would never EVER act on either or these thoughts and I'm so upset that they even popped into my head, I avoid anything sharp and try to avoid my sister as much as possible as I'm so scared. I know I should probably see someone but I've tried before and I miss appointments because I can' face going, the idea of counselling make me panic and usually feel really sick. What can I do? I'm not a sick person, I hate myself for thinking any of these things.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, any help would be so appreciated and sorry for the length!
Lou xx
ps. Sorry if the quality of my writing is a bit all over the place, I really have struggled writing this. xx