LolaBee6
13-09-13, 01:50
Hi.
I suffer with Anxiety and Depression really badly and in the past I was prone to cutting myself. That has stopped for many years now though.
Recently my friend lost her father and she's been going through a REALLY tough time. She's also fighting anxiety and depression.
However, recently she had an argument with her boyfriend. They've been together for 7 years so this wasn't a serious argument, it was just about cleaning the dishes lol
But she ended up locking herself away upstairs and cutting herself for the first time.
Now this has really effected me as its brought back a LOAD of un wanted memories. So I am stuck , I have no idea how to help her . She used to be there for me when I was prone to it but now she needs me and I'm not in the right state of mind to help anyone :/
I really want to help her but I'm scared I'll make her worse ??
Does anyone have any advice ?
I have offered to go to the Drs with her and we can have a chat with her GP but she's too embarrassed to .... I have told her not to be but she won't listen :/ I'm really scared she will do it again.
She cuts herself with a scalpel so it's really dangerous !!
Please help
I suffer with Anxiety and Depression really badly and in the past I was prone to cutting myself. That has stopped for many years now though.
Recently my friend lost her father and she's been going through a REALLY tough time. She's also fighting anxiety and depression.
However, recently she had an argument with her boyfriend. They've been together for 7 years so this wasn't a serious argument, it was just about cleaning the dishes lol
But she ended up locking herself away upstairs and cutting herself for the first time.
Now this has really effected me as its brought back a LOAD of un wanted memories. So I am stuck , I have no idea how to help her . She used to be there for me when I was prone to it but now she needs me and I'm not in the right state of mind to help anyone :/
I really want to help her but I'm scared I'll make her worse ??
Does anyone have any advice ?
I have offered to go to the Drs with her and we can have a chat with her GP but she's too embarrassed to .... I have told her not to be but she won't listen :/ I'm really scared she will do it again.
She cuts herself with a scalpel so it's really dangerous !!
Please help