Bekzie
09-10-13, 18:25
I am so stressed out and on the verge of breaking down!!
Its been a very stressful few weeks and is getting worse and worse, I'm trying my hardest to keep panic away but its not working.
I desperately need some advice on a personal matter, I have been single for 3 years but always had a friendly relationship with my ex because we have two children together. A few months ago I met someone and am now in a relationship with them although he lives 2 hours away we see each other every weekend, things are going great!
Since telling my ex about my new relationship he has flipped!!
For the first few weeks it was just trouble making and snide comments, being angry. Then he tried to win me back with emotional blackmail, flowers etc. Now I'm scared, he keeps threatening me, calling me awful names in front of my children and family, refusing to have my children on the weekends he is meant to have them, trying to control me.
This week things have gone from bad to worse, earlier he grabbed me, tried to hit me so I pushed him as hard as I could and ran away. He texts me threats, he says he will hurt me, kill my new boyfriend, screams, shouts. He has been violent towards me in the past so I am scared he will follow through with his threats.
I have looked into loggingthe incidents with police just so a record is kept but I worry they will go and see my ex and it will make things worse.
Any advice would be great!!
Its been a very stressful few weeks and is getting worse and worse, I'm trying my hardest to keep panic away but its not working.
I desperately need some advice on a personal matter, I have been single for 3 years but always had a friendly relationship with my ex because we have two children together. A few months ago I met someone and am now in a relationship with them although he lives 2 hours away we see each other every weekend, things are going great!
Since telling my ex about my new relationship he has flipped!!
For the first few weeks it was just trouble making and snide comments, being angry. Then he tried to win me back with emotional blackmail, flowers etc. Now I'm scared, he keeps threatening me, calling me awful names in front of my children and family, refusing to have my children on the weekends he is meant to have them, trying to control me.
This week things have gone from bad to worse, earlier he grabbed me, tried to hit me so I pushed him as hard as I could and ran away. He texts me threats, he says he will hurt me, kill my new boyfriend, screams, shouts. He has been violent towards me in the past so I am scared he will follow through with his threats.
I have looked into loggingthe incidents with police just so a record is kept but I worry they will go and see my ex and it will make things worse.
Any advice would be great!!