Kez_miller
05-11-13, 23:44
Hi guys
Basically my grandad (my dad really) is coming to end of life with his cancer, it could be days, weeks months or even a year. But we know it's going to happen now that his treatment didn't work and he is getting worse daily.
Thing is I've never been through grieving. And because I already have anxiety and panic I'm absolutely petrified that when he goes I'm going to end up as a manic depressive, with schizophrenia or bi polar or something like those disabling mental health conditions. I realise these type of people can lead normal lives but anxiety and panic was out of character for me u till 2 years ago never mind anything else. I don't know if you can stop it. How to stop it happening. I just am terrified of becoming seriously mentally Ill. Does anyone have any advice or have been through this. Schizophrenia especially is my worst nightmare. I can't think of anything worse. All advice is great fully accepted.
Basically my grandad (my dad really) is coming to end of life with his cancer, it could be days, weeks months or even a year. But we know it's going to happen now that his treatment didn't work and he is getting worse daily.
Thing is I've never been through grieving. And because I already have anxiety and panic I'm absolutely petrified that when he goes I'm going to end up as a manic depressive, with schizophrenia or bi polar or something like those disabling mental health conditions. I realise these type of people can lead normal lives but anxiety and panic was out of character for me u till 2 years ago never mind anything else. I don't know if you can stop it. How to stop it happening. I just am terrified of becoming seriously mentally Ill. Does anyone have any advice or have been through this. Schizophrenia especially is my worst nightmare. I can't think of anything worse. All advice is great fully accepted.