Col
11-02-14, 12:35
Advice needed PLEASE xxx
For those of u that have dragged me through my wows regarding my family in the past I really need some helpfull advice. They have contributed to my breakdown 2011 & as some of u guys know my parents are the Bain of my life!
For those of u who dont know my story please read my old threads but I'm married with kids not at home or anything!
So my mum came to see me and kids on Saturday 8 th as my daughters birthday on 9th. On surface for kids I can have a fake ok relationship with mum but under the surface a very volatile relationship.
So I have a cousin & he's a bit of a wide boy my mum decided to spill the beans about her involvement with him regarding something bad! Apoarently been going on for 5 years and decided to tell me know as its got out of hand and very serious! I'm appalled and discusted but I couldn't say much because kids were around and screaming baby.
So shes kept it quiet for 5 years and was teary saying shes a bad mum/grandmother blah blah ! And then beggers belief - She turned round in the same breath and asked me to do her a favour and call/text my cousin for her!!! He's wrecked her house ( she lives with her partner) and will not mend what he's broken and won't remove his stuff and the house is apparently an absolute wreck!!!!! He's also nicked stuff and I bought her some furniture and he's taken that blah bla
Baring in mind she's bullied me, force me to name my first daughter, my brother has absolutly nothing to do with her, I helped her 2 years ago avoid a separation with her current partner as she was nearly caught having an affair with his boss! She's nothing but trouble.
What would u do??? What should I do text him ???? Tbh I think I should give her a very sharp talking to and bluntly tell her to piss off !
Now ive had a few days to think about it - I can feel the anxiety rising I'm soooo f-in annoyed she's had the ordasity to ask me I'm getting so annoyed I feel like ripping her head off!
Please help
For those of u that have dragged me through my wows regarding my family in the past I really need some helpfull advice. They have contributed to my breakdown 2011 & as some of u guys know my parents are the Bain of my life!
For those of u who dont know my story please read my old threads but I'm married with kids not at home or anything!
So my mum came to see me and kids on Saturday 8 th as my daughters birthday on 9th. On surface for kids I can have a fake ok relationship with mum but under the surface a very volatile relationship.
So I have a cousin & he's a bit of a wide boy my mum decided to spill the beans about her involvement with him regarding something bad! Apoarently been going on for 5 years and decided to tell me know as its got out of hand and very serious! I'm appalled and discusted but I couldn't say much because kids were around and screaming baby.
So shes kept it quiet for 5 years and was teary saying shes a bad mum/grandmother blah blah ! And then beggers belief - She turned round in the same breath and asked me to do her a favour and call/text my cousin for her!!! He's wrecked her house ( she lives with her partner) and will not mend what he's broken and won't remove his stuff and the house is apparently an absolute wreck!!!!! He's also nicked stuff and I bought her some furniture and he's taken that blah bla
Baring in mind she's bullied me, force me to name my first daughter, my brother has absolutly nothing to do with her, I helped her 2 years ago avoid a separation with her current partner as she was nearly caught having an affair with his boss! She's nothing but trouble.
What would u do??? What should I do text him ???? Tbh I think I should give her a very sharp talking to and bluntly tell her to piss off !
Now ive had a few days to think about it - I can feel the anxiety rising I'm soooo f-in annoyed she's had the ordasity to ask me I'm getting so annoyed I feel like ripping her head off!
Please help