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Butterfly22
11-02-14, 14:06
My Bf smokes and I've been asking him to quit but he is determined not to stop. The only thing is my ocd has got hold of it and I'm obsessing about it to the point it is destroying our relationship, it is making me worry uncontrollably about his health and it leads me to constantly trying to persuade him to quit which is causing a rift between us, my only choice is to accept him as he is since I love him to bits and he loves me but I am struggling to accept he is a smoker, any tips for accepting what you can't change?