dave316
04-12-06, 05:29
Hi everybody, I hope you can help me out here with this. It is 4:45am and im writing this on here so that should say that it has been on my mind.
Okay ladies, I need your womanly advice if i may borrow you for a little while hehe. I will set the story up for you all.
Yesterday (Sat night) i went along to my moms' work do up Birmingham City Centre and a girl i had heard alot about prior to the night went along and i was personally excited to meet her because i had seen her briefly once before when she recieved a lift home from work with my mom and had to get out the car so my mom could. I thought then i like this girl, she's attractive!
So anyway i asked my mom about her like her name and age and what not and her name is Lucy and she is 20 years old. I am 24 for those who forgot by the way. As the months went by, plans for the xmas work do moved forwards and i decided to go along also about a month before the event. I was excited by the prospect of a good overall night and getting to meet this girl.
My mom had got Lucy's mobile number when she agreed to work her hours one time and got her number incase she needed to contact her or whether any plans had changed.
Another guy Steve who worked at the post office (my moms work) saw Lucy also and liked her also. This was afew months ago now i believe. He asked Lucys cousin who also works at the post office for Lucys mobile number and she gave it to him. Whether they have been out yet properly as mates or anything more is pretty much still up in the air.
So over the last few months, my moms work colleagues (including Lucy) had got to see me and other family members when my mom took my sister's wedding photos into work with her.
On the morning of the xmas do, my mom caught the bus home and was sitting next to Lucy as she talked about the event that night and my mom mentioned that i was going also. I'm not jumping the gun here but she did ask questions about me my mom said such as my age and whether or not i was seeing anyone at the moment.
THIS IS WHERE MY FIRST QUESTION COMES IN LADIES HAHA - having seen me in wedding photos before and asking whether i was single or not, would that in your opinion just mean she was asking out of friendliness and curiosity or was she asking for a different reason? Such as interest in me?
So the night came and i went along to the event held in Birmingham City Centre. I got there and when i first saw Lucy she gave a polite smile but i noticed throughout the night she would give casual glances over in my direction. For example, say I am sitting at the top of the table and she is in such a position that she would have to turn around to look at me at all, she did do so as if she was listening to what a colleagues of hers was saying who was sitting in my direction and then would give a second or two glance my way whilst this was going on but would then quickly look back the way she was originally. She did this afew times during the evening.
Is this any kind of sign of interest either guys. She spent alot of the time chatting to that Steve fella who had started sitting next to her. They were talking and sometimes she would look like she was interested in the conversation she was having with him and other times would be facing forwards instead, not looking that interested. Cue another glance over my way in the manner in which i just described.
I am a shy guy and time was ticking away and i hadnt yet even introduced myself to her. i was getting frustrated with myself for this. Then one of my my moms colleagues looked to me and said afew of the youngsters are going clubbing afterwards and would i want to join them. I said yes please.
After this i thought come on dave, introduce yourself now otherwise you will be like the spare one at the wedding if you don't so i pulled myself together and approached Lucy and introduced myself. I said hi and my names Dave, whats yours? (Like i didnt know already lol) Anyways i did that nothing fancy, just an into and she seemed to be happy that i had came over to her and has introduced
Okay ladies, I need your womanly advice if i may borrow you for a little while hehe. I will set the story up for you all.
Yesterday (Sat night) i went along to my moms' work do up Birmingham City Centre and a girl i had heard alot about prior to the night went along and i was personally excited to meet her because i had seen her briefly once before when she recieved a lift home from work with my mom and had to get out the car so my mom could. I thought then i like this girl, she's attractive!
So anyway i asked my mom about her like her name and age and what not and her name is Lucy and she is 20 years old. I am 24 for those who forgot by the way. As the months went by, plans for the xmas work do moved forwards and i decided to go along also about a month before the event. I was excited by the prospect of a good overall night and getting to meet this girl.
My mom had got Lucy's mobile number when she agreed to work her hours one time and got her number incase she needed to contact her or whether any plans had changed.
Another guy Steve who worked at the post office (my moms work) saw Lucy also and liked her also. This was afew months ago now i believe. He asked Lucys cousin who also works at the post office for Lucys mobile number and she gave it to him. Whether they have been out yet properly as mates or anything more is pretty much still up in the air.
So over the last few months, my moms work colleagues (including Lucy) had got to see me and other family members when my mom took my sister's wedding photos into work with her.
On the morning of the xmas do, my mom caught the bus home and was sitting next to Lucy as she talked about the event that night and my mom mentioned that i was going also. I'm not jumping the gun here but she did ask questions about me my mom said such as my age and whether or not i was seeing anyone at the moment.
THIS IS WHERE MY FIRST QUESTION COMES IN LADIES HAHA - having seen me in wedding photos before and asking whether i was single or not, would that in your opinion just mean she was asking out of friendliness and curiosity or was she asking for a different reason? Such as interest in me?
So the night came and i went along to the event held in Birmingham City Centre. I got there and when i first saw Lucy she gave a polite smile but i noticed throughout the night she would give casual glances over in my direction. For example, say I am sitting at the top of the table and she is in such a position that she would have to turn around to look at me at all, she did do so as if she was listening to what a colleagues of hers was saying who was sitting in my direction and then would give a second or two glance my way whilst this was going on but would then quickly look back the way she was originally. She did this afew times during the evening.
Is this any kind of sign of interest either guys. She spent alot of the time chatting to that Steve fella who had started sitting next to her. They were talking and sometimes she would look like she was interested in the conversation she was having with him and other times would be facing forwards instead, not looking that interested. Cue another glance over my way in the manner in which i just described.
I am a shy guy and time was ticking away and i hadnt yet even introduced myself to her. i was getting frustrated with myself for this. Then one of my my moms colleagues looked to me and said afew of the youngsters are going clubbing afterwards and would i want to join them. I said yes please.
After this i thought come on dave, introduce yourself now otherwise you will be like the spare one at the wedding if you don't so i pulled myself together and approached Lucy and introduced myself. I said hi and my names Dave, whats yours? (Like i didnt know already lol) Anyways i did that nothing fancy, just an into and she seemed to be happy that i had came over to her and has introduced