Elle-Kay
07-05-14, 22:48
As usual, I haven't been here for a while, because I've been doing really well at keeping on an even keel. I've even been doing things in my professional life that two years about would have been utterly unthinkable.
Unfortunately I've reached another busy period in my working life, which is upsetting my balance (there are a lot of events I need to do this month, which involve a lot of preparation, all on top of one another). I'm mid way through the first event today, and after a shaky start yesterday I actually had quite a calm and relaxed day (comparatively) today. However, we have a friend staying in the house with us tonight and tomorrow night, and I've just had to come through and shut myself in my bedroom because I could feel the panic rising, and once I got into bed (and found out that I can't get the channel I "need" to watch on my bedroom TV) it started peaking.
I've used the CBT4Panic programme in the past, and so I'm trying to tell myself that it's ok for this to happen - it's a one-off, it's a mistake, and it can't hurt me. It doesn't matter if I have to distract myself this time, as long as I don't stir the thoughts/feelings in my head. I feel so guilty though :( I feel guilty for being a bad host and leaving my friend alone (and even for wishing her not here!), I feel guilty for coming this far and letting myself down, and I feel guilty for being back on NMP when I'm feeling rough, but my husband is out, and I have no-one else to talk to.
I can't seem to stop the negative thoughts telling me that if I have a full-on panic attack in the night, I either won't be able to come down from it unless my friend leaves the house (even though I know this isn't true - this is still my home, and I'm still safe here no matter who is here), or I'll make a total fool of myself and embarrass everyone here by panicking with others around me. I just want to sleep through it, but if I lay down I'm afraid I'll panic.
My friend is staying tomorrow night too (going home on Friday lunchtime). I can't go through another evening like this :(
Unfortunately I've reached another busy period in my working life, which is upsetting my balance (there are a lot of events I need to do this month, which involve a lot of preparation, all on top of one another). I'm mid way through the first event today, and after a shaky start yesterday I actually had quite a calm and relaxed day (comparatively) today. However, we have a friend staying in the house with us tonight and tomorrow night, and I've just had to come through and shut myself in my bedroom because I could feel the panic rising, and once I got into bed (and found out that I can't get the channel I "need" to watch on my bedroom TV) it started peaking.
I've used the CBT4Panic programme in the past, and so I'm trying to tell myself that it's ok for this to happen - it's a one-off, it's a mistake, and it can't hurt me. It doesn't matter if I have to distract myself this time, as long as I don't stir the thoughts/feelings in my head. I feel so guilty though :( I feel guilty for being a bad host and leaving my friend alone (and even for wishing her not here!), I feel guilty for coming this far and letting myself down, and I feel guilty for being back on NMP when I'm feeling rough, but my husband is out, and I have no-one else to talk to.
I can't seem to stop the negative thoughts telling me that if I have a full-on panic attack in the night, I either won't be able to come down from it unless my friend leaves the house (even though I know this isn't true - this is still my home, and I'm still safe here no matter who is here), or I'll make a total fool of myself and embarrass everyone here by panicking with others around me. I just want to sleep through it, but if I lay down I'm afraid I'll panic.
My friend is staying tomorrow night too (going home on Friday lunchtime). I can't go through another evening like this :(