Danny_dingle
30-06-14, 08:45
Hi everyone,
Not posted for a while but struggling to help myself as I'm waiting for therapy and I am majorly stressed, just need some tips/words of advice from people who've been there.
Basically, I am finding work really hard at the minute. I'm pregnant so I'm knackered but also I feel like I am constantly in trouble. The manager has been on hol and is back now, but I have the day off so won't see her until tomorrow. I know yesterday didn't go as well as either me or her would like and I am pretty sure I am going to be in trouble when I go back in.
The thing is, I know I spent the whole of last week working my socks off and managed certain targets that I never thought I'd hit in a million years, so I was really pleased with myself. But now I know that everything that went badly yesterday will be the only thing she focuses on and it has really deflated me. She seems to be being really negative with me at the minute and is missing out all the positives/not seeing the good things I have done and it is really starting to hurt now.
I can't talk to her about it because I know she won't think she's done anything wrong, which makes it worse, and it will just make her more annoyed. I need to be able to cope with her reactions and not let them upset me but I don't know how to do this.
Please help me.
Danny
Not posted for a while but struggling to help myself as I'm waiting for therapy and I am majorly stressed, just need some tips/words of advice from people who've been there.
Basically, I am finding work really hard at the minute. I'm pregnant so I'm knackered but also I feel like I am constantly in trouble. The manager has been on hol and is back now, but I have the day off so won't see her until tomorrow. I know yesterday didn't go as well as either me or her would like and I am pretty sure I am going to be in trouble when I go back in.
The thing is, I know I spent the whole of last week working my socks off and managed certain targets that I never thought I'd hit in a million years, so I was really pleased with myself. But now I know that everything that went badly yesterday will be the only thing she focuses on and it has really deflated me. She seems to be being really negative with me at the minute and is missing out all the positives/not seeing the good things I have done and it is really starting to hurt now.
I can't talk to her about it because I know she won't think she's done anything wrong, which makes it worse, and it will just make her more annoyed. I need to be able to cope with her reactions and not let them upset me but I don't know how to do this.
Please help me.
Danny