syl
21-12-06, 08:06
well as most of you may remember I had problems regarding my son not contacting me for weeks on end ,
well he has gone and done it again i have tried phoning all week from last friday and no reply was getting very worried as he lives so far away .
then low and behold i loged on his website on monday and he and his wife and daughter have gone to daughter in laws parents in florida for christmas great only way you find out were your son is , is by looking at his website
I know this may sound awful but as he is the only relative i have and i live alone i do like to know when he is away in case of emergencys but that doesnt seem to count with him.
I guess i will get a phone call on chistmas day and new years day and then he might tell me he is away lol
Have decided that the boot is going to be on the other foot at new year as I have decided to go away for 5 days with a girl friend and no I am not going to tell him so if he phones me on new years day there will be no answer then maybe he will know how i feel if he cares only problem is all this has sent my anxiety sky high again and palpations are running faster than i like
my question is do you think i am doing wrong not telling him I am going away
I want him to have to wonder and hopefully worry why i am not answering the phone am i being nasty to him
well he has gone and done it again i have tried phoning all week from last friday and no reply was getting very worried as he lives so far away .
then low and behold i loged on his website on monday and he and his wife and daughter have gone to daughter in laws parents in florida for christmas great only way you find out were your son is , is by looking at his website
I know this may sound awful but as he is the only relative i have and i live alone i do like to know when he is away in case of emergencys but that doesnt seem to count with him.
I guess i will get a phone call on chistmas day and new years day and then he might tell me he is away lol
Have decided that the boot is going to be on the other foot at new year as I have decided to go away for 5 days with a girl friend and no I am not going to tell him so if he phones me on new years day there will be no answer then maybe he will know how i feel if he cares only problem is all this has sent my anxiety sky high again and palpations are running faster than i like
my question is do you think i am doing wrong not telling him I am going away
I want him to have to wonder and hopefully worry why i am not answering the phone am i being nasty to him