Nervous
23-08-14, 12:49
Hi all
I'm new to this and have never used a forum before.
I have been a nervous introvert my whole life. Wear my heart on my sleeve. Fearful of letting others down. Always feel like I'm being judged and find social situations difficult. I have not dealt with rejection well in the past and still don't. I have often felt like the world is against me yet I hate feeling like this.
The past two years have been particularly stressful. My mother passed away in December 2012 after a long battle with MS. She died peacefully at home with her family around her. I have also had 4 miscarriages over the last year. I had been trying to continue to cope and work. Unfortunately my behaviour at work became insular. I could not communicate normally with team members and people didn't know how to approach me or how to help. Seeing my colleague bloom with her pregnancy made me feel so bitter and jealous. Eventually I was asked to take some time off. I have had 4 weeks off now and will have a further 2 as sickness before a holiday. I then return to work.
I am terrified how people will respond to me when I do return and am already nervous about it. I work in the health service so have a busy and stressful job. Team communication is vital. Deep down I am caring and friendly but the anxiety of the last two years has seemed to make me unable to show affection and controlling.
I need help but do not know what to do to reduce my nerves and feel like myself again.
I'm new to this and have never used a forum before.
I have been a nervous introvert my whole life. Wear my heart on my sleeve. Fearful of letting others down. Always feel like I'm being judged and find social situations difficult. I have not dealt with rejection well in the past and still don't. I have often felt like the world is against me yet I hate feeling like this.
The past two years have been particularly stressful. My mother passed away in December 2012 after a long battle with MS. She died peacefully at home with her family around her. I have also had 4 miscarriages over the last year. I had been trying to continue to cope and work. Unfortunately my behaviour at work became insular. I could not communicate normally with team members and people didn't know how to approach me or how to help. Seeing my colleague bloom with her pregnancy made me feel so bitter and jealous. Eventually I was asked to take some time off. I have had 4 weeks off now and will have a further 2 as sickness before a holiday. I then return to work.
I am terrified how people will respond to me when I do return and am already nervous about it. I work in the health service so have a busy and stressful job. Team communication is vital. Deep down I am caring and friendly but the anxiety of the last two years has seemed to make me unable to show affection and controlling.
I need help but do not know what to do to reduce my nerves and feel like myself again.