swgrl09
02-10-14, 23:28
I haven't had time to come on here much the past week or so because of my new job. It's actually probably good for me to be busy and working. I do enjoy the job.
I've been going to a new therapist who is actually quite good. This week was weird however. We started off talking about my Health Anxiety and really hashing out what it's like for me. Then out of nowhere I couldn't stop thinking about a past sexual trauma and never thought my HA was related to it - clearly thought it was JUST related to my mom dying of cancer and her having HA all her life. But kept popping into my mind that HA protects me from lots of things...
So we start talking about this trauma I had a few years ago ... and I felt things about it that I hadn't felt since the day it happened. I don't know why either because I had a good therapist I saw before for it and saw her for over a year and a half. We did EMDR, CBT, and family therapy. I actually finally felt less angry at the person who hurt me the past few months and thought I was more at peace with myself.
So it felt like it was out of nowhere. I felt sick to my stomach talking about it and like I was living it all over again. I went home and tried to get on with life, but the next day (yesterday) I got home and fell apart. My husband tried to be romantic with me and I just got so triggered. I started crying and telling him how I felt, which was really hard for me to do. These are feelings I have kept to myself since it happened and he was really supportive.
After I just felt so shaken up and just not right, like raw almost. I had trouble sleeping and was distracted all day at work today. Now I am home and I didn't go to the gym because I just wanted to be alone. I feel so drained and still feel raw. I feel really depressed too. My husband is gone now on a business trip until Monday. Part of me
I don't really know what to do about this. I have therapy again in 2 weeks, but she said I could call her if I need to. However, working as a therapist myself, I don't want to bother her - even though I know she wouldn't say that if she didn't mean it. I just feel so raw and depressed. I am trying to be patient with myself, but I feel really icky.
I've been going to a new therapist who is actually quite good. This week was weird however. We started off talking about my Health Anxiety and really hashing out what it's like for me. Then out of nowhere I couldn't stop thinking about a past sexual trauma and never thought my HA was related to it - clearly thought it was JUST related to my mom dying of cancer and her having HA all her life. But kept popping into my mind that HA protects me from lots of things...
So we start talking about this trauma I had a few years ago ... and I felt things about it that I hadn't felt since the day it happened. I don't know why either because I had a good therapist I saw before for it and saw her for over a year and a half. We did EMDR, CBT, and family therapy. I actually finally felt less angry at the person who hurt me the past few months and thought I was more at peace with myself.
So it felt like it was out of nowhere. I felt sick to my stomach talking about it and like I was living it all over again. I went home and tried to get on with life, but the next day (yesterday) I got home and fell apart. My husband tried to be romantic with me and I just got so triggered. I started crying and telling him how I felt, which was really hard for me to do. These are feelings I have kept to myself since it happened and he was really supportive.
After I just felt so shaken up and just not right, like raw almost. I had trouble sleeping and was distracted all day at work today. Now I am home and I didn't go to the gym because I just wanted to be alone. I feel so drained and still feel raw. I feel really depressed too. My husband is gone now on a business trip until Monday. Part of me
I don't really know what to do about this. I have therapy again in 2 weeks, but she said I could call her if I need to. However, working as a therapist myself, I don't want to bother her - even though I know she wouldn't say that if she didn't mean it. I just feel so raw and depressed. I am trying to be patient with myself, but I feel really icky.