Cnfused123
03-10-14, 19:47
I have always suffered from some kind of OCD or anxiety. It started off with blasphemous sexual thoughts about God where I couldn't enter a temple (I am a Hindu) followed by certain rituals which if I didn't do something really bad would happen to my parents.:weep:
It then went on to a fear of wetting my bed in the night so I wouldn't sleep over at friends' or relatives' house and if I did then I had to go to the toilet 10 times. It then went on to changing my underwear every 10 times a night because if I didn't I thought I would get dirty sexual dreams in my sleep. :scared15:
All this was before I hit puberty. After puberty and when I discovered masturbation, I started feeling I would get pregnant from masturbation or God would punish me and poison me somehow:lac: (Go figure!)
At one point I was so worried I convinced my parents I was going to die because I had masturbated and at another (16 years old at this point) I had convinced them that I had a sever form of mental disorder and I had no future. :emot-fail:
Now at 27, the fear of HIV has consumed me for the past 2 years. I have tested myself after every person I kissed or had mutual masturbation or frottage with. even though logically I know it was only frottage, my mind has played games with me by telling me that what if something more happened which I was unaware about (most of the times I was a lil tipsy or drunk):mad:
Recently I was going through a lonely anxious time and I just needed company. I ended up not sleeping but just having frottage with 4 guys individually at different times, one of whom I was dating. once out of my anxious phase, I felt so guilty about what I did, I got myself tested and once realizing that I was negative, I went back to my happy life for a week until I lost my virginity to a friend while drunk :mad: I know big mistake... I shouldn't have let that happen but it happened.
Now I feel like God is really going to punish me this time. We were drunk but I do remember him wearing a condom and he has said he is virgin as well. I have known him for two months and know that he is a nice guy but jus worried about what if he has HIV? I am also worried about what if the condom broke or he didn't wear it carefully? He told me the condom did not break but I am just freaking out. :unsure:
The anxiety is worse because from a previous relationship two years back I contracted genital herpes and since then I have this feeling that I am unlucky and might contract something else.
I know a lot of people who do worse then me and don't worry about it (not that it means that what I have done is right, it is wrong in my eyes).
I am feeling very suffocated lately. I have done an early detection and HIV 4th gen test and anxiously awaiting results so that I can move on with my life but the test centre is taking its own sweet time :curse: and killing me inside.
I am so worried, I just want to find a nice guy, be married and have kids. I don't want to make these mistakes anymore, will God/Universe give me yet another chance?
It then went on to a fear of wetting my bed in the night so I wouldn't sleep over at friends' or relatives' house and if I did then I had to go to the toilet 10 times. It then went on to changing my underwear every 10 times a night because if I didn't I thought I would get dirty sexual dreams in my sleep. :scared15:
All this was before I hit puberty. After puberty and when I discovered masturbation, I started feeling I would get pregnant from masturbation or God would punish me and poison me somehow:lac: (Go figure!)
At one point I was so worried I convinced my parents I was going to die because I had masturbated and at another (16 years old at this point) I had convinced them that I had a sever form of mental disorder and I had no future. :emot-fail:
Now at 27, the fear of HIV has consumed me for the past 2 years. I have tested myself after every person I kissed or had mutual masturbation or frottage with. even though logically I know it was only frottage, my mind has played games with me by telling me that what if something more happened which I was unaware about (most of the times I was a lil tipsy or drunk):mad:
Recently I was going through a lonely anxious time and I just needed company. I ended up not sleeping but just having frottage with 4 guys individually at different times, one of whom I was dating. once out of my anxious phase, I felt so guilty about what I did, I got myself tested and once realizing that I was negative, I went back to my happy life for a week until I lost my virginity to a friend while drunk :mad: I know big mistake... I shouldn't have let that happen but it happened.
Now I feel like God is really going to punish me this time. We were drunk but I do remember him wearing a condom and he has said he is virgin as well. I have known him for two months and know that he is a nice guy but jus worried about what if he has HIV? I am also worried about what if the condom broke or he didn't wear it carefully? He told me the condom did not break but I am just freaking out. :unsure:
The anxiety is worse because from a previous relationship two years back I contracted genital herpes and since then I have this feeling that I am unlucky and might contract something else.
I know a lot of people who do worse then me and don't worry about it (not that it means that what I have done is right, it is wrong in my eyes).
I am feeling very suffocated lately. I have done an early detection and HIV 4th gen test and anxiously awaiting results so that I can move on with my life but the test centre is taking its own sweet time :curse: and killing me inside.
I am so worried, I just want to find a nice guy, be married and have kids. I don't want to make these mistakes anymore, will God/Universe give me yet another chance?