Viclake
15-11-14, 11:44
Hi, I was wondering if anyone could help me? I've been with my new partner for 2 years now I'm going through divorce which is dragging on and stressful I have two children with me full time they canot see there dad due to abuse so lots of court hearings etc I won't go into detail but I have a lot on my plate and find it hard most days to cope, I work juggle things around I don't seem to get time to sit and think things through properly and when I do I'm to tired. Anyway to get straight to the point now, my partner of 2 years has sufferd anxiety at his worst before he met me, I've been told he is a lot better which he probley is, but I'm finding it hard yo talk to him about it, when I have tried to talk to him he gets really angry with me, so I have no one else to turn to so that's why I am here. His main issues are driving long distances (short distances around where we live he is fine with) he will drive long distances but only with his mum/dad or close family members, he won't drive further distance with ME but only with close family members and it realy hurts me it's like he doesn't trust me or something I did ask him the other week 'why can't you drive long distances with me?' And he said because it's not the same! It's horrible if ever we want to go away he has to bring his mum or dad or close family and I would really want to go away with us just as a family, and his family want him to do things for himself to! They say to be more pushy on him which I have done and we end up not talking to eachother for the rest of the day, and the other thing is he's up and down like a yo yo he's always got to be going to the local shops or poping in and out of family members houses which gets on there nerves to! He can't seem to stay in our home, he goes to work fine but can't seem to stick to a job, it's not a very good lifestyle to be honest I want to help him but in all honesty I don't think I'm good enough for him im a soft nature I do everything that he asks me to do and I'm besotted with him and love him very much, he goes to the gym twice a day and is constantly on his phone!. Any advice? Thanks for reading.