elik
28-11-14, 14:12
Hi guys,
I have suffered from depression since the age of 11 and I am now 21. There is no doubt about it, that anxiety is the cause of depression. My main problem is that I ruminate (over think, end up in a negative spiral). I have been really good at managing it over the past few years now I am a bit older and wiser but now and again my anxiety rears its ugly head. I am quite good at letting it pass without putting up to much of a fight and getting absorbed by it. However, my latest anxiety is to do with my relationship which I can't seem to let pass as it poses a massive threat and this scares me sick. I am doubting everything in my relationship and fearing that we will end or I will ruin it by being like this, and this thought alone makes me want to break down in tears. I seem to be analysing his moves and jumping to conclusions making myself miserable with the constant 'what if's' going through my brain. I have my good moments and realise I cannot predict the future and I just need to be content in the now, but I can't seem to let it go and I have the most sickeningly heavy feeling in my stomach and feel physically sick most times due to the anxiety. Any tips would help, the last thing I need is to sabotage my own relationship as I love my boyfriend to pieces and I am very lucky.
Thanks :)
I have suffered from depression since the age of 11 and I am now 21. There is no doubt about it, that anxiety is the cause of depression. My main problem is that I ruminate (over think, end up in a negative spiral). I have been really good at managing it over the past few years now I am a bit older and wiser but now and again my anxiety rears its ugly head. I am quite good at letting it pass without putting up to much of a fight and getting absorbed by it. However, my latest anxiety is to do with my relationship which I can't seem to let pass as it poses a massive threat and this scares me sick. I am doubting everything in my relationship and fearing that we will end or I will ruin it by being like this, and this thought alone makes me want to break down in tears. I seem to be analysing his moves and jumping to conclusions making myself miserable with the constant 'what if's' going through my brain. I have my good moments and realise I cannot predict the future and I just need to be content in the now, but I can't seem to let it go and I have the most sickeningly heavy feeling in my stomach and feel physically sick most times due to the anxiety. Any tips would help, the last thing I need is to sabotage my own relationship as I love my boyfriend to pieces and I am very lucky.
Thanks :)